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He wasn't even a date, but I'm at church one day and a guy comes up to me and says:

"I had a dream last night..from God...and you were naked in it"

here's me... my jaw drops and he proceeds to tell me all about his dream.

But it did not end there. Two weeks later at an all church pot-luck...in front of everyone he pronounces loudly, "Can you ever forgive me? We've committed adultry!" as if I had something to do with it?!?!?!

But it still does not end there, oh no... another two weeks pass and one night... when I was talking to the youth pastor and there were a couple of other guys standing there he walks up and says "I talked to pastor and he says we didn't commit adultry because I was unconscious at the time." which...makes it sound like I did something to him in his sleep. After that I talked to the pastor and my father.. needless to say the men of the church were watching out for me from then on and this guy wasn't allowed around me.
- September 24th, 2009, 11:48 pm
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I once had a guy ask me if he could "do" me with his ex-wife's dildo. What a nut! Stopped seeing him!!

I also had a blind date once who, 15 minutes into the date, wanted to go back to my house and "lay down together." That was 15 minutes I'll never get back!
- September 26th, 2009, 05:57 pm
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You made the right decisions.
- September 26th, 2009, 08:02 pm
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A very attractive woman after spending a very nice couple of hours together on the first date told me she wanted me to kiss every inch of her body. Unusual, but not unreasonable.
- September 26th, 2009, 08:09 pm
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One lady told me that if a man showed up, in leathers, to be real, ah, chummy. It was clear she was out to make him jealous and using me for that.
- September 27th, 2009, 07:23 am
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Help her move. First date.

I had to drive a ways to meet her, and I was supposed to meet her at her place. Well, she was going to be moving into a new apartment soon, which I knew. But that wasn't on the plan for that night. I guess that the landlord of her current place told her she could get her deposit back that night if she moved her stuff out. She apparently needed that money to move into her new place. So, we spent the evening, along with a bunch of her guy friends, packing her stuff up, her kids stuff up, and moving it all into a storage room at a neighbors house.
There wasn't a second date! Somehow she managed to figure out we "didn't connect". Wonder why...?
- September 27th, 2009, 11:04 am
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LAFITE wrote :
A very attractive woman after spending a very nice couple of hours together on the first date told me she wanted me to kiss every inch of her body. Unusual, but not unreasonable.
I would imagine not.
- September 27th, 2009, 11:16 am
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centralnydude wrote :
Help her move. First date.

I had to drive a ways to meet her, and I was supposed to meet her at her place. Well, she was going to be moving into a new apartment soon, which I knew. But that wasn't on the plan for that night. I guess that the landlord of her current place told her she could get her deposit back that night if she moved her stuff out. She apparently needed that money to move into her new place. So, we spent the evening, along with a bunch of her guy friends, packing her stuff up, her kids stuff up, and moving it all into a storage room at a neighbors house.
There wasn't a second date! Somehow she managed to figure out we "didn't connect". Wonder why...?
Why does the moving company "Two Men and a Truck" suddenly have new meaning to me?
- September 27th, 2009, 11:17 am
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baileyandwoof wrote :
My ex-husband (ok, not a date) did ask his parents to go on our honeymoon with us, and, even creepier, they went! The marriage didn't last much longer after that.
So, your parents didn't want to go too, huh?





(omg, whatinnaworld was he thinking?)
- September 27th, 2009, 11:18 am
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always be the one to pay for every thing. i suppose he wanted me to feel, as he said, lets see how long you like it when i have to pay all the time.
he was right guys always paid for things, i always throught they just complained until i paid all the time. i started whinging just like they did. now i go Dutch. no matter what.
- September 27th, 2009, 11:37 am
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