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lucky173 wrote :
I'm gigglin' at "mothball guy". Mine later became known as "Shoe Freak" The good ones always get nicknames.... Don't they?

Don't get me started on "Catman"...
- October 8th, 2009, 02:03 pm
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ennoidyam wrote :
Don't get me started on "Catman"...
Catman? Do.

Or is that Katmandu?
- October 8th, 2009, 02:10 pm
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He wasn't even a date, but I'm at church one day and a guy comes up to me and says:

"I had a dream last night..from God...and you were naked in it"

here's me... my jaw drops and he proceeds to tell me all about his dream.

But it did not end there. Two weeks later at an all church pot-luck...in front of everyone he pronounces loudly, "Can you ever forgive me? We've committed adultry!" as if I had something to do with it?!?!?!

But it still does not end there, oh no... another two weeks pass and one night... when I was talking to the youth pastor and there were a couple of other guys standing there he walks up and says "I talked to pastor and he says we didn't commit adultry because I was unconscious at the time." which...makes it sound like I did something to him in his sleep. After that I talked to the pastor and my father.. needless to say the men of the church were watching out for me from then on and this guy wasn't allowed around me.

Ha Ha! I had a crazy stalker dude from church too! What was scary was that, on top of his dillusions, he was a retired cop and used his connections to find my home, work, email and other private info.

I had to talk to the pastor too and the men of the church would take turns following me home and cruising my neighborhood looking for his truck. The women of the church would never let me sit alone and would all keep an eye out for him in the service. If One of them spotted the guy, they would tell one of the men, who would, in turn sit behind him and then keep an eye on him after service to make sure he didn't follow me!

Weird how we had the same experience...

Lesson: watch out for church-going men!
- October 8th, 2009, 02:12 pm
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Bet you're going to think twice before eating the next time someone serves you spaghetti!
I should think ANY guy from the South would hesitate at eating spaghetti...(you southern girls know what I'm talking about)
- October 8th, 2009, 02:26 pm
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No I didn't really want to get anymore involved than I already was. She was acting irrationally and I wouldn't have even gone out with her if I knew she was engaged. I wouldn't want anyone doing that to me if I was the other guy.
- October 9th, 2009, 02:44 pm
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lil_lamb wrote :
how he should dress for a first meet up at starbucks. i didn't think anything of it at first, but he kept asking - how should he dress to go to the movies at a run down theatre, etc. etc. and not once did he wear what i suggested. he always showed up in khakis and a button down shirt.
Maybe his closet is set on autopilot! At least he won't give you an unpleasant sartorial surprise.
- October 31st, 2009, 10:13 am
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