do all men read the mars venus books?

I really think that too many men have read the mars and venus books and take them way too literally! I do not want the constant eye contact so much that it makes me feel uncomfortable, and makes you seem creepy.
Stop the googly eyes! Now I say!

Then, you all seem to be taking way too much an interest in how my day went or what my job is. My job is not that interesting, really, I don;t have much to say about it, and when I am not at work, I do not want to think about work or talk about work!!! And to want to hear every detail of my day, what did I eat, what did I do at work, what did I do after work. If I say I had a routine day then I did, the details are boring, and you actually aren;t interest, you just have read somewhere that you are supposed to act interested.

Women don;'t want that stuff, just be yourselves, make conversation about the news of the day, politics, social issues, your hobbies, general stuff that we both can chime in on, and maybe find some common ground. Talk about vacations you liked, books, movies, tv shows, sports, what you do in your spare time, stories from when you were a kid, what you were like in high school, colllege, a

and when you talk about what you do, just give the in a nut shell version, I don't want the 2 hour in depth version of what you do. When we ask about your day, the same - we are being polite, making small talk, don;t give every detail, just say your day was fine, or went well, that's all! unless something really spectacular and out of the ordinary happened, be it good or bad, then that is worth sharing.

I am done having boring conversations where all we do is talk about our jobs and our day!!!

Damn I am glad I am not dating you!

A man can't make small talk by asking about you job or how you day went but you can ask these things. You are just being polite by asking these things but if a man asks these things it is not just being polite. Talk about a double standard.