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I'd say "pursue this" is a way of side stepping the words "not interested in you". Sounds less personally directed at you. As for the timing of it, was their anything to pursue? Maybe not. Probably she means "pursue the idea of developing a relationship" rather than an actual relationship. It is a cliche and therefore will be used.
- October 2nd, 2009, 02:31 pm
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Yep, I don't think that is "female speak" at all, just a general way of saying "I'm not interested in you". Librarybabe hit the nail on the head in terms of the longer version of what it means.
- October 2nd, 2009, 02:39 pm
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