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beentherehavetee is offline beentherehavetee Post #1  September 16,2009, 1:44pm
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Or men, your lady ceases her silent treatment, and returns to you as loving and attentive and full of passion as ever.

What would you do? Or how have you responded in the past?

A. Ask him/her, "What gives?"
B. Ignore past episode but watch for further signs of mental instability then bail?
C. Say, "Do I know you?"

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D_Lion is offline D_Lion Post #2  September 16,2009, 1:46pm
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Unpredictable emotional volatility is grounds to end a situation promptly.

I can not manage someone else's emotions.
 
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jayjay is offline jayjay Post #3  September 16,2009, 1:50pm
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...things seem to have gotten quiet around here.

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D). I wouldn't even know she's stopped the silent treatment....I wouldn't be around. There are too many people who want to talk to me.
 
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Nanette is offline Nanette Post #4  September 16,2009, 2:00pm
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this is the best reason to keep your distance (at least with a guy) because you wont be around enough for him to have any desire to "cave".
 
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I wouldn't even bother. At that point, I would have moved on.
 
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D) Hmm...while you were hiding in your cave I was enjoying sunny pastures....meet my new boyfriend Bob.

Sorry OP but for me that would not be behavior that I tolerate in a partner. There are way too many emotional and psychological issues attached to that.
 
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Silent treatment is manipulation. Red flag, deal breaker, sign of emotional immaturity. Been there, done that. Slew that dragon years ago.

D) Would not be around to know that the individual has exited his cave.
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When you can't get a date then you don't have these experiences.

Isn't the silent treatment the same as poofing?
 
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jayjay is offline jayjay Post #9  September 16,2009, 5:49pm
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...things seem to have gotten quiet around here.

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WYskywatcher wrote :
Silent treatment is manipulation. Red flag, deal breaker, sign of emotional immaturity. Been there, done that. Slew that dragon years ago.

D) Would not be around to know that the individual has exited his cave.
Stop copying me.
 
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winn is offline winn Post #10  September 16,2009, 5:51pm

Please tell me where I can find a normal man???

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D_Lion wrote :
Unpredictable emotional volatility is grounds to end a situation promptly.

I can not manage someone else's emotions.
Yeah but, can anyone manage your emotions?
 
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