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I hate to say, but when you meet people online it tends to come as a thought to dump people online. It avoids the uncomfortable moment of hearing your thoughts on her wanting to move on.

I hope you have since seen brighter days!!
- September 16th, 2009, 05:13 pm
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I have broken up with people in person only. I had always thought that if you have something sensitive to deal with, you always do it in person. I would never do that to anyone. It is better than disappearing, but only slightly higher on the phylogenetic scale. If she were to call me back to reconsider, I would tell her to move on.
- September 16th, 2009, 08:32 pm
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I got "Dear John'ed" by my recent ex-gf of 2 years.

We are friends now, but I would never respect her or trust her enough to date her again.

She had communication issues the whole time, and she "dumped me" several times via email then poof'ed for weeks.

I finally got fed up with it as I saw no improvement.
- September 16th, 2009, 09:35 pm
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