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- September 14th, 2009, 08:16 pm
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Sounds to me like a guy with some issues. My only advice would be cease all contact. Not too likely you want to know any more about him. Just reading your post sets off my alarms.
- September 14th, 2009, 08:22 pm
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Hi I am Stalker Jones and you are?
Just imagine if you had met him..could have been 9 calls 3 voicemails and 5 emails..

This is a little creepy. I agree with LD might be best to cease any further contact
- September 14th, 2009, 08:28 pm
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A lot of guys are used to getting ignored ... though this is way over the top.

If he is otherwise someone you would have wanted to meet, you could spoof him and see if he has a sense of humor about it: send one message, but split it up across five e-mails / calls, all left at once.

I might try that if I liked the person.
- September 14th, 2009, 08:30 pm
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Yet another reminder that until you've met (maybe more than once) and are sure who you're dealing with, please think twice about giving out personal information. This includes your full name, an email address that would reveal your full name, and even a phone number. Some people want to talk on the phone before meeting, but I don't even do that unless there is a good reason to.
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- September 14th, 2009, 08:32 pm
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Yes definitely back off. He has an obsessive personality. If you feel stalked now just imagine how you would feel after you were dating and he called you for the fifth time at work wanting to know where you were five minutes ago and why you didn't pick up the phone!
- September 14th, 2009, 10:48 pm
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I'd rate that an 9 out of 10 on the creep factor! Maybe 'secure call' is the way to go in the future? Just a thought!
- September 14th, 2009, 10:57 pm
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GEF2 wrote :
Guys, have a question? I've gone through guided communication and sent an email or two and exchanged #'s. This guy called me twice in one day-both times I missed his call b/c I was still at work and then I had gone out after work and got home late, so I figured I'd just return his call the next day. When I got home that night, he had also left me 2 emails! The next day, I was visiting a friend I thought you said you were going to call him and I had looked at my phone and he had left me yet another message. Now, I am definitely not calling him b/c I am so put off/creeped out by his behavior. I have never even met him and it feels like he's stalking me. Why is he calling me so much and not giving me a chance to get back to him?

Two calls one day, and (when you don't call him) a message (short? long? ) the next day... maybe he's just not into playing "hard to get" games. Sounds like you are looking for someone more adept at playing "waiting" games.
As it appears you can not even muster the courage/respect to tell hem how you feel, maybe he is better off.
IMHO games suck and do not contribute to a healthy relationship
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- September 15th, 2009, 12:16 am
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Why would you give your number to a guy you knew you weren't going to call for several days? I have to agree with melman on this one.
- September 15th, 2009, 12:26 am
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Gotta agree with "olneyjeeps".... you've had more than enough time and opportunity to be courteous enough to respond to his earlier messages - but you haven't. You sound more like a gameplayer than he sounds like a creep.
- September 15th, 2009, 06:03 am
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