beentherehavetee is offline beentherehavetee Post #1  September 13,2009, 3:50pm
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working....or just rarely available.

Would you date and/or entertain others, even though he seems to think that you guys are exclusive?

What are your thoughts?
 
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beachgirl5 is offline beachgirl5 Post #2  September 13,2009, 3:52pm
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Yes, and let him know that you're not exclusive and why.
 
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Laughingdaily is offline Laughingdaily Post #3  September 13,2009, 4:13pm
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From your post it sounds like "he" is the one who thinks you are exclusive. Did you 2 talk and agree to be exclusive?? Does not sound like that reading the short post here.

Tell him he is exclusive with himself, and you are moving right along. Too bad!! Don't waste any time.
 
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There really should be a job title of Busy Analyst.

I find that people will make time for the things they really want to do.
 
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beentherehavetee wrote :
working....or just rarely available.

Would you date and/or entertain others, even though he seems to think that you guys are exclusive?

What are your thoughts?

First thing that comes to my mind is that he is married or in another relationship! WOW! What's up with men? They meet a beautiful women who they are head over heals over........and suddenly, I am working, no time to see you!! Sorry, life is too short, if you meet someone that you would like to pursue a relationship with, then do so!............he is not being exclusive, so you should not waste your valuable time! His loss.....not yours!
 
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Ladyjuju wrote :
First thing that comes to my mind is that he is married or in another relationship! WOW! What's up with men? They meet a beautiful women who they are head over heals over........and suddenly, I am working, no time to see you!! Sorry, life is too short, if you meet someone that you would like to pursue a relationship with, then do so!............he is not being exclusive, so you should not waste your valuable time! His loss.....not yours!
Whoa...
You don't know that he isn't exclusive...
And what is enough time.... every night? Three nights? Two?
This is a pretty subjective ummm...subject... No?
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If you haven't had the talk about exclusivity, then you're free to date others.

However, if you have, then you're not free to date others.
 
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I suspect you're feeling a bit lonely. I'm dating a guy atm who is always busy - work, squash, hockey.......all kinds of activities. It sometimes leaves me feeling a bit flat because even talking on the phone, which we do once during the week, often he is multi-tasking. He's a wonderful man though, when I do get his full attention

If this guy thinks you are exclusive but you want to see other people then I think you at least need to clarify that with him.
Or if you're simply unhappy with his apparent lack of attention but do like him, have you tried telling him that? Don't assume he doesn't care. Ask for what you want and see what you get. Doing that worked for me
 
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Why not sit him down and have a heart to heart talk with him? There is more then meets the eye going on, so draw your line in the sand and make a stand! You can always txt him to hit the road jack. Only you can do it, so do it!

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If you can't get his attention now, when the relationship is new, then it will only get worse as time goes on. Talk to him about how you feel and take it from there.
 
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