MelinCali is offline MelinCali Post #41  October 2,2009, 9:36pm
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LizziePooh wrote :
Ok...I think this sold it for me. I am backing MelinCali for this fight.

We should take bets - Mel against Peg and GP. What should the odds be?? And can someone explain odds to me while you are at it?? lol!!
I am not good explaining odds, but odd is something I encounter frequently now that I take the bus to work.
Last edited by MelinCali; October 2,2009 at 9:37pm. Reason: That said....I would bet on peg and GP. I'm no match for their combined force for sure!
 
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zal is offline zal Post #42  October 3,2009, 3:20pm
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"Respect" She does what I want when I tell her to, without questioning, complaining, or pouting. Even better, she does what I'm GOING to tell her before I say it.
 
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That list pretty much sums it up. I also believe that if you respect someone you will never do or say anything willingly that will hurt the other person.
 
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  1. Accept me for who I really am, in all my broken glory.
  2. Don't try and change me.
  3. Don't try and change my interests, my friends, or my points of view.
  4. If I'm not what you want, leave me so that I can find someone who does want me for who I am.
  5. Let me speak my mind when I want to speak it.
  6. Let me be quiet when I want to be quiet.
  7. Don't try and be my mommy.
  8. Don't tell your friends that it's like I'm another one of your kids.
  9. Actually tell me what you're thinking and feeling. Straight out.
  10. Recognize that hints are not an effective form of relationship communication.
  11. Talk to me like the adult that I am.
  12. When I apologize, accept it.
  13. When I compliment you, accept it.
  14. Don't fool yourself into thinking that you understand me better than I understand myself. You don't.
  15. Unless I ask for help, allow me to handle my own problems unimpeded.
  16. Treat me like I really matter in your life.
  17. Be on time.
This.

The thing I hate the most is getting the impression the woman thinks I'm some kind of child to be talked at and not to. As if she has absolutely no respect for me and think I'm less than her in some way.

Typically I don't hang around these women very long otherwise they would be found strangled to death. Seriously, attitude is not welcome.

If you're a woman and you don't know when you're being disrespectful, then you are in deep trouble. My guess is that you're some type of princess and your mother treated your father like dirt, so you think it's normal to bag on a guy.
 
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zal wrote :
"Respect" She does what I want when I tell her to, without questioning, complaining, or pouting. Even better, she does what I'm GOING to tell her before I say it.
So you're saying that only psychics are capable of respect, huh?
 
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Here's a test if you're being disrespectful.

If you think of a guy differently than any other person, then you probably are either being overly-respectful or disrespectful.

Evaluate how you think of them. It's no different than anyone else. If you don't respect someone then you probably show disrespect in the way you treat them.

Some women think all men are morons and need their direction. That is the first hint you're being disrespectful.

It goes both ways. Men do it too.

If I'm clicking with a woman, odds are I'm being respectful.
 
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peg099 wrote :
So you're saying that only psychics are capable of respect, huh?
Would you like me to tell you your future, peg?
 
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Would you like me to tell you your future, peg?
As long as you have good news for me!!!
 
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peg099 wrote :
As long as you have good news for me!!!
Hmmm....so I won't tell you how you're going to die then.
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MelinCali wrote :
Hmmm....so I won't tell you how you're going to die then.
Which of my deaths are you referring to?
 
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