Seneca is offline Seneca Post #1  September 11,2009, 11:11am
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Ok... here is the question...

If a woman wanted to orchestrate a date that would leave a superb and long-lasting impression on you - what would she include in that date?

Note - the relationship between you and this woman has a romantic element to it but how long you've known or dated the woman doesn't matter. Whether you've had sex doesn't matter. Your ages don't matter. Your financial statements don't matter. Who is paying for the date and what county it is in don't matter.

The date will last no more than 24 hours.

Just describe the date a woman could provide for you that would likely be on your all-time "Best Dates in My Life" list. Keep in mind that some women are sneaky enough to ignore the thread title and read your rsponses in hopes of adding some new idea to their stable of dating wiles.
 
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Laughingdaily is offline Laughingdaily Post #2  September 11,2009, 11:21am
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OK, looks like you are making a whole lot of assumptions here. Can you expand on this dreamy scenario just a little for people like me who may be just a touch slow??????
 
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winn is offline winn Post #3  September 11,2009, 11:38am

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Yeah, Seneca, I really need to know what you are thinking your dream date should be? I need to collect ideas that I can use?
 
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Harvey7 is offline Harvey7 Post #4  September 11,2009, 11:49am

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What should she include in that date!

A Putter, A Putting Cup with auto return, a dozen Golf Balls and 20/ Ft. of Garden Hose! Plus a little imagination!

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singleman4803 is offline singleman4803 Post #5  September 11,2009, 12:37pm
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Seneca wrote :
If a woman wanted to orchestrate a date that would leave a superb and long-lasting impression on you - what would she include in that date?

Note - the relationship between you and this woman has a romantic element to it but how long you've known or dated the woman doesn't matter. Whether you've had sex doesn't matter. Your ages don't matter. Your financial statements don't matter. Who is paying for the date and what county it is in don't matter.
I think it's impossible to come up with a date without knowing the situation. A first date is different than a date in a long-term relationship.

I would say that the things that made a long lasting impression on me were typically personal/emotional situations and nothing to do with the actual surroundings or activities. In other words, a superb date would not necessarily be something like a trip in a hot air balloon or picnic on a beach. To be honest that stuff is irrelevant.

Some of my best dates were just lying around doing nothing. Simply because I enjoyed being with her at the time and that's all that mattered.
 
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singleman4803 wrote :
I think it's impossible to come up with a date without knowing the situation. A first date is different than a date in a long-term relationship.

I would say that the things that made a long lasting impression on me were typically personal/emotional situations and nothing to do with the actual surroundings or activities. In other words, a superb date would not necessarily be something like a trip in a hot air balloon or picnic on a beach. To be honest that stuff is irrelevant.

Some of my best dates were just lying around doing nothing. Simply because I enjoyed being with her at the time and that's all that mattered.

This sounds great. But it looks like OP wants fantasy island type stuff here.
 
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Back in July, I took my then date on a well prepared, fully paid 3 day long date to Paris including a great evening at Crazy Horse (yes, his eyes nearly popped out). It was a great success.
 
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singleman4803 wrote :
Some of my best dates were just lying around doing nothing. Simply because I enjoyed being with her at the time and that's all that mattered.
Amen, brotha.

All the extravagant stuff is more for the ladies. Nothing like peace, quite, and some together time. A sandwhich wouldn't hurt.
 
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I'm not exactly sure what you're looking for, but i'll play....

1. It wouldn't matter where we went. Quiet and uncrowded is better. Maybe to a national park to hike, lounge around on the living room floor and play Scrabble, float around the pool together, curl up on the couch for a movie, a dinner out to a place with great desserts.

2. She would be comfortable and relaxed, able to laugh at me and herself, flirty in a non-slu__y way, a good conversationalist, she could leave the rest of life's trials behind for a day.

3. She would dress casually yet sexy, a tank top and boxers to lie around, maybe a sun dress and sandals to go out.

4. It should be a day where you could look into your mind's eye a month later and a smile comes to your face.
 
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hazmat wrote :
I'm not exactly sure what you're looking for, but i'll play....

1. It wouldn't matter where we went. Quiet and uncrowded is better. Maybe to a national park to hike, lounge around on the living room floor and play Scrabble, float around the pool together, curl up on the couch for a movie, a dinner out to a place with great desserts.

2. She would be comfortable and relaxed, able to laugh at me and herself, flirty in a non-slu__y way, a good conversationalist, she could leave the rest of life's trials behind for a day.

3. She would dress casually yet sexy, a tank top and boxers to lie around, maybe a sun dress and sandals to go out.

4. It should be a day where you could look into your mind's eye a month later and a smile comes to your face.
Nice answer, Hazmat!
BTW, I have a tank top and red stretchy boxers...
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