I don't get the apologized to much thing unless you mean you were just flat out wimpy in which case trying to talk to her to explain how you really are or to try and get a second chance will just come accross as more wimpy. The more you try, the more she will not be interested at this point, I predict. You are already Mr Wimpy and contacting her to try and explain yourself, start over, show her a different side of you, blah blah blah is just convincing her that you are a wimp. Fight the URGE!

I am not a man but have dated men that were obviously ready to put up with anything out of me. Turn off. When I was younger might have hung in there as long as there was no one else to play with but once someone else came along that was it.

For me personally, once I decided someone was a wimp they were in that category permanently and I think that is the same for most girls.

When they acted different from that, i.e., wanted me to behave or be more respectful of the relationship, I would feel like they were being unfair.

Now if a person that I did not think was a wimp wanted the same exact thing from me it might be no problem. But, most people really do tend to assess someone and throw them into a category. I think it is just something wired in us to help us cope. And as others have stated, very hard to get out of that category.

Moving on right away to some cool girl and NOT CONTACTING her is the way I would go if I was a man knowing what i know as a woman. Doesnt have to be the prettiest girl or the one you want to marry. Then if she txt you be very respectful and cordial but don't chat with her. Let her do the work.

Even if this does not get you back with her right now and she moves on, if you are ever both single in the future (hopefully the near future) she will remember you as the guy who moved right on and didnt look back and thus, not a WIMP.

Now she sees you differently and you have a real chance.