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train_in_vain is offline train_in_vain Post #21  December 4,2009, 9:59am
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I’m new to these boards but already this type of thread seems to be very common.

My take is pretty simple:

If part of you feels that someone is behaving badly (in the context of your brief relationship so far) then you may as well assume they ARE behaving badly.

And if they are behaving badly at the very beginning, just how badly might they behave later when they could take your commitment for granted?

So quit now before more time and still more emotional energy is wasted.
 
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Tabouleh is offline Tabouleh Post #22  January 18,2012, 8:18pm
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Ive heard of this happening before. I have 2 gal friends who got into relationships SO fast. They saw each other everyday.. one of my friends met his daughter the same week they met. They were inseparable and 2 weeks later. BOOM he said he didn't want to be with her. They were perfect for each other.. but I think it just moved too fast for the both of you. It's unfortunate he can't just tell you that!!

I'm dating a guy who came on really strong. Texted me very endearing texts all day, how much he liked me etc.. and wanted to hangout multiple days in a row immediately. Now he's kind of hot and cold. I'm thinking he came on too strong and its freaked himself out. Relationships should move at a steady pace for them to last imo.

Good luck lady! Men are soooooo confusing!
 
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jimmyh452 is online now jimmyh452 Post #23  January 20,2012, 12:19pm
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this guy is just a jerk. Move on.

Who knows or cares why he's acting like this...he's not worth your time. And no, most guys don't do this stuff.
 
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jimmyh452 is online now jimmyh452 Post #24  January 20,2012, 12:22pm
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Tabouleh wrote :
Men are soooooo confusing!
If you think this is true, you ought to try dating a woman. That ish will make your head spin!
 
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Zombie thread walking from 2009.....
 
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I see three possibilities.

1. He came on strong and fast because he wanted to get you in bed. When that didn't happen right away he moved on to easier conquests.

2. He was carried away by pure infatuation, which later faded in the sober light of day and left him confused about what all the fuss was about. This is unfortunate... but it does happen.

3. He is seriously into you. He broke off contact because: a - he's scared or b - something else is going on that is distracting him from thinking about the relationship (possibly his job)

You'll have to use your own judgment to decide which is the case.
 
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