inthenameoflove is offline inthenameoflove Post #1  September 10,2009, 3:01am
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for the ladies, situation 1st date with a match about 100 miles away. reserved a suite for the night mostly for myself, would you be offended if i asked you to meet me at the room to talk before dinner(it has a living room)?
 
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Not offended but definitely scared and creeped out. This can too easily be read as you are hoping to get lucky. Personally I would never set foot into a hotel room of a man I've never met before the same as I would not go over to his house. You meet in public and public alone, after that......it's up to the both of you on how comfortable you feel, but I'd still be very cautious about suggesting that she come up to your room. She may see it as a highly inappropriate suggestion.
 
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inthenameoflove wrote :
for the ladies, situation 1st date with a match about 100 miles away. reserved a suite for the night mostly for myself, would you be offended if i asked you to meet me at the room to talk before dinner(it has a living room)?

What are you thinking here?????
 
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Does the hotel have a restaurant or coffee shop? Or even meet in the lobby...

I wouldn't go to a strange man's room. Wait... A stranger's room. I've dated plenty of strange men!
 
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This seems like a very bad idea. It should send off huge red flags for the woman in terms of common sense and safety. Don't put her on edge, just meet in a public place and enjoy the date!
 
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inthenameoflove wrote :
for the ladies, situation 1st date with a match about 100 miles away. reserved a suite for the night mostly for myself, would you be offended if i asked you to meet me at the room to talk before dinner(it has a living room)?
I'm not a lady...but from my perspective. I wouldn't even bring up the fact that I'm renting a room for the night (its only 100 miles). If she asked, sure, I'd tell her...but I just wouldn't bring it up myself. I don't know...just wouldn't want her to get any ideas that I have an expectation (or even hope) that she'll be coming back to the room with me later that night.

So, yeah...to answer your question do NOT ask her to meet you there!!...now, after you've had a few dates, yada, yada...that's a whole 'nother story.
 
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jayjay is offline jayjay Post #8  September 10,2009, 9:26am
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...things seem to have gotten quiet around here.

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You could be more specific. Like tell her that you want to meet and have your first conversation sitting on the bed in your hotel room. Maybe that would go over well. : 0
 
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inthenameoflove wrote :
for the ladies, situation 1st date with a match about 100 miles away. reserved a suite for the night mostly for myself, would you be offended if i asked you to meet me at the room to talk before dinner(it has a living room)?
Is your first date with a hooker?

Did I write that out loud?
 
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DennisWisconsin wrote :
Is your first date with a hooker?

Did I write that out loud?
LOL. I heard it over here.
 
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