Paolo1117 is offline Paolo1117 Post #1  September 9,2009, 10:17pm
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We've been texting for a few days. We have normal conversation and talk about every day stuff, but recently she's gone somewhat cold...I think I may be talking too much...but she was keeping it friendly and it never seemed to be going south.

What should I do if she's not responding to simple "Hey how's your day" type of texts? Call? It feels awkward at this point to keep pressing. It's only been a few days but I don't want to press my luck.

Next step should be?
 
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jayjay is offline jayjay Post #2  September 9,2009, 10:20pm
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...things seem to have gotten quiet around here.

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That kind of talk gets boring quick.

As I suspect you already know, based upon your status bar....'Don't be the guy in the PG13 movie that everyone is really hoping makes it. Be the guy in the rated R movie that you're not sure you like yet.'
 
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Ok, well let me see here....oh never mind. Think I am just going to sit this one out....
 
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To me, texting is for a brief hi or how are you stuff. An actual conversation should be by phone. She could be getting bored of the texting. It's not very personal.
 
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melman is offline melman Post #5  September 10,2009, 6:31am
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Paolo1117 wrote :
We've been texting for a few days.
Why? What is your goal?

wrote :
Next step should be?
Again - what is your goal?
 
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I can't figure out if you're talking or texting. And I don't call texting normal conversation. Either way, if it's been a few days, it's too long. You already pressed you luck by taking too long to meet up.

If you started out on eH, the normal flow would be a couple exchanges in OC, a request to exchange phone numbers, one or two phone calls then meet.

If she wanted a pen pal she could write to some dude in prison.
 
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nishatika is offline nishatika Post #7  September 10,2009, 3:25pm
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yeah, hows your day and what did you do today gets very old! have a real conversation!
 
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