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Seneca is offline Seneca Post #1  September 7,2009, 4:54pm
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OK, bear with me. Hopefully this one will more clear than the last question I posed.

We all did the "profile" thing on ourselves and all study the profiles of others to see if we are attracted or repulsed, and all think of lists of things we are "looking for", etc., etc. But a comment posted on another thread raised an interesting (imho) question.

Have you ever sat down and asked yourself what are the traits of people who are (or would be, or have been) sort of naturally attracted to YOU???
What do you suppose the "profile" would look like of a person who would meet YOU and think to themselves: "Oh Wow, I gotta get to know this person!"
That exercise might be worth a try. It could enlighten a person about where might be productive places to "cast their bait" - so to speak.

Anyone have any ideas along those lines? What do you think is the M/O of people who would likely be "naturally" attracted to YOU ?
 
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D_Lion is offline D_Lion Post #2  September 7,2009, 5:08pm
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Honestly, of all the women who’ve written me, their profiles haven’t had consistent themes, at least in the written portion.
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What about women from "real life" that have "naturally" liked you or approached you? Have they been more consistant ?

In my case, many have said they were first attracted because they perceived me "easy to talk to". Fact is, I enjoy meeting people and have met tons of really nice people wherever I go, and I've been all over the country. I can get into a conversation with a stranger in a store and in 3 minutes you'd think we grew up together. So I guess that would make me "approachable" so now I have to figure out the personality of the kind of person would be "extra-attracted" to someone who is "extra-approachable".
 
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The men that are most likely attracted to me are the "granola-types."

You know, the ones that are environmentally aware and drive a hybrid. Strong emphasis on natural living and use Dr. Bronner's Magic Soap (I love Dr. Bronner's, BTW).

Very organic and liberal. Spends a fair amount of time at the farmer's market or in their own garden.

^^ Those one's.
 
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Fun question. Women who have been "attracted" to me range from one end of what ever scale you may wish to use to the other in terms of their personality types.

I wish more were a stronger type A, and quite a few were, but did not have anything that gave me a spark.

Does that answer whatever your question is?? (huge lol)
 
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I've often wondered what attracts people to me but i can't say i've ever noticed the people who are attracted falling into particular groups, except when i was on friendfinder and more than half of the people contacting me were from the US, they were just Anglophiles looking for Hugh Grant though, so i don't think that really counts.

Actually that may not be true, i have noticed one thing more and more in recent years and i don't know if is says more about the way dating is in general or not. Most of the women i've dated in the last ten or fifteen years are women who have been seriously messed around by guys, or even abused. Does that mean that the percentage of women suffering is really that high or is there something about me that attracts women who have been used, dominated, slapped around...?
 
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good question. tri-athletes will just ask me out (usually a mistake, with the exception of my boyfriend). men that i go for and who go for me tend to be slightly off-beat men with a button-down appearance. those that i don't go for, but who will put out feelers, are pot-smoking, conservatives (just a mind-boggling combo of characteristics) and the occasional guy who's really pretty straight but nonetheless from the tribe of "alternative."

no one conventional ever approaches me. but i probably wouldn't notice if they did.
 
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I attract short chicks.
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Women are not attracted to me at all
 
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