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daleb is offline daleb Post #1  September 4,2009, 6:36pm
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I've gone out on 3 dates with a nice guy I met online about 2 months ago. He has invited me to his house for our 4th date (dinner and movie), but I'm wondering if it is appropriate to go? I feel comfortable that he isnt a mass murderer, but is it too soon? Might it send the wrong message? Appreciate the advice.
 
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If you feel comfortable why not? If you're not sure then I would say no. If you do, just give some friends the address and time. And if they don't hear from you, they'll know something is wrong.

I've done this with new guys I meet. So far nothing bad has ever happened, but I still like knowing that someone knows where I am and what to do.
 
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If it feels too soon, it is. I say trust your gut.

If you're just worried about mixed messages, pick one message and send that.
 
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I think the OP is in wedded bliss by now.
 
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I think the OP is in wedded bliss by now.
Or in a freezer in the basement.
 
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If you are worried you will be a hussy for going over, then don't. Do whatever you feel like.

If you are worried it might not be safe, trust your gut. There's a lot of latitude between mass murderer and safe.
 
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Or in a freezer in the basement.

Is that an echo I hear?
 
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daleb wrote :
I've gone out on 3 dates with a nice guy I met online about 2 months ago. He has invited me to his house for our 4th date (dinner and movie), but I'm wondering if it is appropriate to go? I feel comfortable that he isnt a mass murderer, but is it too soon? Might it send the wrong message? Appreciate the advice.
I am more comfortable inviting a guy at home during the daytime. I would be hesitant to go to a guy's house for dinner and movie unless I can really trust him.
 
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Dropdeadredtx is offline Dropdeadredtx Post #9  September 19,2010, 3:32pm
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GUYS - the OP is a year old. Hence my and DL's humorous responses. It's done. Nothing to see here.
 
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astro42 is offline astro42 Post #10  September 19,2010, 3:35pm
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Darnit. Normally I don't fall for these shenanigans.
 
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