What's a woman to do who has vaginismus?


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Christian lady here got married and saved sex until after marriage only to learn that i am unable to have intercourse!!! I was not sexually molested or anything but my first pap smear was very traumatic. Add to that though my husband didn't demand sex he showed early on that he is deceitful so i
could not trust him which clammed things up even more. i tried dildos and talked with ob/gyn and even in surgery asked the doc to break my hymen to make sex easier. she did in surgery but it made no difference.
no matter how we tried nothing was getting through. now we are divorced and now that i know i
have this problem and it is important which makes it more stressfull when do i tell a date this and how do i do it? do Christian men run for the hills? i
didnt know it the 1st time so it wasnt my foult but now i know.
 
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