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sheera007 wrote :
I don't know if its real, or if its a big hoax... and he submitted it to the radio program for his own publicity (as some people suggested in the comments section of the link). Either way, its frickin' hilarious!
Now I'm disappointed. I thought you said this was real life....not like the Swingers scene.
- September 3rd, 2009, 10:05 pm
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jayjay wrote :
Now I'm disappointed. I thought you said this was real life....not like the Swingers scene.
Sorry, jayjay.

That was before I read some of the comments. Some people are suggesting that its a publicity stunt to promote his business(es).

I clicked on a link to one of his youtube videos and it was very crude. I've decided I don't care to investigate any further.

Might be real voicemails. Might not be. Either way, he's a freak.
- September 3rd, 2009, 10:18 pm
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What was wrong with that? lol

There's also an awesome scene in the movie 'Swingers' in which a guy goes desperate/crazy leaving a series of messages on the voicemail of a woman whose phone number he just got.
Yes I dated him. Four times. In four different bodies. Also the guy from fourty year old virgin. The one that acts like she is leading him on and then you find out she moved to escape his pestering. Dated him too.

Note: If you write someone love letters for four years and they don't answer or contact you for 3 years and 11 months of them they are not interested.

These type people are why I took a hiatus from dating.

I'm trying to get back now. Not weirded out anymore and accept that this succession of mostly one or two date guys was unusual . Most guys are not like this. So now I am ready to date again.

And now no one is asking.

I hope its not karma and that I have not pissed off the Gods. I did get really mean in trying to get left alone.
- September 3rd, 2009, 10:34 pm
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Wow, that was an instant classic!
- September 3rd, 2009, 11:58 pm
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Thanks for sharing. This, of course, is a riot. The guy is obviously flat out nuts. Aside from a few laughs, there's nothing to be learned. Thankfully, this creep falls within a small segment of the population. We have had just as crazy things said on the boards here. There was a guy who actually posted that women "owe" any man that asks a date. He went futher and put the repsonsibility of his inability to get a date on any women who decline men's advances, in general. What's even more amazing is that some of the women posting about how "creepy" this guy is, would actually post sympathetic responses in some deranged effort to "help" him.. Too bad we could not have gotten him on tape; he would have rivaled Dimitri's lunacy.
- September 4th, 2009, 06:00 pm
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Dimitri's confidence as one poster put it, is definitely part of his Greek culture. I had experience with a Greek guy once and they want what they want. I however thought Dimitri went overboard. In just a few moments of time he basically gave her a resume' of himself bragging about this and that. I am a down to earth gal and any bragging of that sort would turn me off. If he is all he says he is, I'd rather "see" it than him telling me. He came off as having too much pride and for me that is a huge turn off.
- September 4th, 2009, 08:14 pm
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he was really giving her "an opportunity"

"call me as soon as you have the courage to"
- September 4th, 2009, 08:43 pm
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rocchio wrote :
Thanks for sharing. This, of course, is a riot. The guy is obviously flat out nuts. Aside from a few laughs, there's nothing to be learned. Thankfully, this creep falls within a small segment of the population. We have had just as crazy things said on the boards here. There was a guy who actually posted that women "owe" any man that asks a date. He went futher and put the repsonsibility of his inability to get a date on any women who decline men's advances, in general. What's even more amazing is that some of the women posting about how "creepy" this guy is, would actually post sympathetic responses in some deranged effort to "help" him.. Too bad we could not have gotten him on tape; he would have rivaled Dimitri's lunacy.
LMAO! Ooooops!! Was that me??? I don't think so.

C'mon - there are not that many crazies (regardless of sex) out there. It just seems like it sometimes. It is never as bad as it seems. lol!.

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- September 4th, 2009, 10:02 pm
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Nanette wrote :
OMG hilarious. i think he represents the population
...of men? a rather sexist comment, that.
- September 5th, 2009, 01:53 am
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Lizziepooh, let's finish this conversation in PM, shall we, provided of course you have the courage to PM me. I've been approached like 80 times this weekend on eharm, and I can only imagine what will happen when they finnally get to see my pics! But, I only go for super elegant women like yourself, so don't worry---you won;t have to share me. After all, I'm the only guy on these boards who's not screwed up! Uhm, let's see it's now...(I'm setting my watch)...6:47pm eastern standard time. Should I not hear from you by 5:00PM on Monday, I shan't be contacting you. No, Lizziepooh, please don't let the other ladies on the boards discourage you--they are just jealous (especially, Nanette, she's got it for me bad, Baby). ;-)

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