never go out with someone who just recently brokeup


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beentherehavetee is offline beentherehavetee Post #11  September 2,2009, 3:35pm
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Thanks for the heads up. Next time, check here first. We could have told you.
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 is offline Gr8Guyn2008 Post #12  September 2,2009, 7:11pm
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I'm crippled by the fear That I've fallen too far to love

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When you end a relationship you should take off a week for every month of the relationship before starting dating again. So I read.
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 - you realize this means I cannot date until 2045?

Seriously - one of the first women I dated after my divorce last year was final had just filed for divorce - she seemed so certain and definite (the guy cheated on her)... What a mistake - the main thing we had in common was my recent and her current divorce war stories - not enough to go on! I was thinking I should "get her before someone else realizes she's free" - but there was simply too much anger in the vicinty to get through to the good stuff.
 
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It is so complicated, ya'll, and it doesn't even have to be.

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People fresh out of relationships should come with warning labels. Someone ought to invent that.
 
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I remember that after my big LTR I needed 9 months to get completely back to normal.

The first 3 months were stressful because of complete life change.

After the 3 months, dating was fine.

I was OK from months 4-6 but still a bit off.

& months 6-9 were even better.

It was very weird that there was a noticable difference at those intervals.
 
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Last year, I dated a woman for a couple months who was on eH a week after getting out of a seven year relationship. Should have been a huge red flag...

Soooooo much baggage. It ended with her uncontrollably weeping one evening after a minor disagreement between us because she was "a disappointment to everybody".

Maybe she would have been a little more under control if she had waited a whole month after getting out of her LTR.
 
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