ajerzegirl is offline ajerzegirl Post #1  September 2,2009, 6:37am
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I met a guy on EH and we set up a date - great lunch - called me 2 days later - another late lunch date and a movie - a little kiss and great conversation - he seemed really interested and I was feeling the same - there was chemistry and he called me 2 days later and we set up a 3rd date - had a bit to eat and shot a few games of pool - great night - a little longer kiss (which was awesome) I called him the next day to thank him for a great time especially the kiss and he stated that he was thinking about that too - I ended the call (had to go to work) and suggested that we talk soon and make plans to get together again - he agreed and I haven't heard from him since! Totally confused with all the "dating rules" my girlfriends give me - I can't call him - he's just not that into you - blah blah blah - why can't I call? Is it wrong to call to see if he's ok or am I acting rejected?
 
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There is no reason in the world to not phone him. You had to terminate the conversation. Perhaps he is thinking the same thing.....I havent heard from her since....
 
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Call him... we will protect you from the dating rules police...
 
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Why can't you call him? Tell your girlfriends to give up these ridiculous rules. Just dial his number and find out what's up.
 
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So this was a while ago... What ever happened?
 
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DennisWisconsin wrote :
Call him... we will protect you from the dating rules police...
 
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The first thing to do is quit talking to all your girlfriends. Then I have to ask are your girlfriends married, then what would they know, are they single and successful at dating?, no, then what would they know other than what not to do..

From the way you described your last conversation I would have to think that he is expecting you to call since you are the one that called and then had to end it because you had to go to work. He is expecting you to call and continue the conversation where you ended. So he is looking at your not calling as that you are not into him.

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So many threads where the OP tells a story, asks a question, then ... never comes back. Now that's a mixed signal for ya!
 
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I just sent an email to jerzegirl. She hasn't been on this site for over a month so I'm not holding my breath for a response.

She started a thread called "should I move on or call?" under the dating heading on September 2nd as well. This one is six pages long and I didn't have the patience to read all six pages. I DID read the last two and it seems that she didn't hear from the guy because he was out of town and it wasn't clear whether she'd actually try to call him or whether she's going to move on.

It would be nice to have an answer one way or another though.
 
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Quit those stupid childish game playing rules and just call him......
 
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