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bigfincat is offline bigfincat Post #1  September 1,2009, 5:54pm
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I am usually up for helping in any way that I can but....

After having a party that goes somewhat late into the evening
it is unreasonable to clean everything up including all of the dishes when you have the next day off (or even if you have to work for that matter).

I find it to be plenty unreasonable to not enjoy the alone time after everyone leaves. The party does not need to end.

It also can be fun to hit up the cleaning the next morning when the sun is shining & music is playing, coffee brewed, etc.

We can soak the dishes overnight so that nothing sticks & do a couple of the necessities but that is as far as I am going. & I would be kind of annoyed if an SO of mine decided that she had clean it all herself instead of enjoying that evening.

I mean come on! How often do you have parties so why not enjoy that entire evening? The next morning is nothing special...just another morning.
 
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D_Lion is offline D_Lion Post #2  September 1,2009, 5:58pm
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Yes, you are right.

Besides, if food particles are still stuck after the dishwasher, they will probably not ruin your next meal.
 
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brneyedangel is offline brneyedangel Post #3  September 1,2009, 6:02pm
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D_Lion wrote :
Yes, you are right.

Besides, if food particles are still stuck after the dishwasher, they will probably not ruin your next meal.
Hence the soaking of the dishes that he mentioned in his post. Besides, you can always wash the dishes by hand to avoid this.

I'm all for taking care of the necessities, enjoying the night, and dealing with the rest in the morning. Life's too short to get uptight over things that can be taken care of in the morning, IMHO.
 
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CreolePrincess is offline CreolePrincess Post #4  September 1,2009, 6:07pm
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Huh? Never host a party at your place. Rent out and let the venue's clean up crew tackle it. Or if you just must do it at your house, hire someone to come in the morning after while you're still sleeping off the hangover.

Yes, yes....so I'm a cleaning snob! Been there and not done that.
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My roommates and I have plenty of parties and we always save the non-food clean up for the next day.
 
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LizziePooh is offline LizziePooh Post #6  September 1,2009, 6:12pm

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This is when the guest list is critical. I always like to include a couple people-pleasers just so there is no fess or mess for me to deal with!!!

Everyone has a purpose!!!
 
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LizziePooh wrote :
This is when the guest list is critical. I always like to include a couple people-pleasers just so there is no fess or mess for me to deal with!!!

Everyone has a purpose!!!
That is genius.
 
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LizziePooh is offline LizziePooh Post #8  September 1,2009, 6:28pm

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bigfincat wrote :
That is genius.
 
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ltc89 is offline ltc89 Post #9  September 1,2009, 6:32pm
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I get your point, and I can see the logic, but I'm one of those men who can't go to bed if there's a mess to be cleaned up. I have to bite the bullet and do it before I go to bed.

Then the next morning I can enjoy the coffee and morning paper knowing the work's been done.
 
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LizziePooh is offline LizziePooh Post #10  September 1,2009, 6:37pm

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Ha! Ha! I just thought of something (and you will like this BigCat)...

I was watching a Mentalist and Patrick Jane said that messy women make better lovers.

Now, if Patrick Jane said it has to be true!!!
Last edited by LizziePooh; September 1,2009 at 6:48pm. Reason: Why? Because my post was messy!!!
 
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