The 4 faced date! We are all guilty of this one!


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Ladyjuju is offline Ladyjuju Post #1  September 1,2009, 2:57pm
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Ok, we all know 2 faced peeps! Well going on a first date is like a 4 faced peeps! And ok, maybe I am generalizing, as many of you will say, " Oh no! I am always myself and they need to like me or leave me! I don't pretend for anyone!" yeah right! A first date is like a baseball game, who's on first? was that a fast ball? did she like my curve ball? Will I get to first base? Oh my god! did I strike out?? You get the picture. First dates are remarkably really dishonest and not for the wrong reasons. Each member of the first date is trying to be on their best behavior and offer up some sort of image of themselves which is really not who they are in reality! ( God knows I am going to get ne-sayers who say, " I am what I am and if he/she doesn't like me then they can go elsewhere") again yeah right? ...but all in all, that is my opinion, which..........I am entitled too!
If it was otherwise, I don't think this on line dating would exist too long! Time has come for everyone to be brutally honest on the first date!...........if you dare!!
 
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Ladyjuju wrote :
A first date is like a baseball game, who's on first?

Yes.
 
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Ladyjuju wrote :
Time has come for everyone to be brutally honest on the first date!...........if you dare!!

Yes, I am really a stud-muffin.
 
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lol
 
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Nanette wrote :
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Yes, I am really a stud-muffin.

For real?
 
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did someone respond? or was that a "ribbet"!
 
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Ladyjuju wrote :
did someone respond? or was that a "ribbet"!

Batter Up!
 
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Ladyjuju wrote :
did someone respond? or was that a "ribbet"!
you have to unblock his posts to find out
 
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nah,
I've been on waaaaayyyyy too many first dates to have the energy to keep up with a dishonest view of myself. Of course I'm nice, pleasant and charming on a first date! But then again, that's the way I am ALL the time (hehehehe). So while we might be guilty of putting our best foot forward on a first date. I wouldn't say that is being 2, 4, 6, or 8 faced. Just civil.
 
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