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I was on a second date with a match a met through EH and he seemed pretty nice on the first date and few phone calls we had. However on our second date he mentions how one night he was up and that nothing was on besides ads for p*nis's and how to make them bigger and such. I was just wondering if I may be acting a little prude or is it a little strange to mention something like that.
- August 31st, 2009, 05:25 pm
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It is a lot strange, actually.

I would be concerned about this fellow.
- August 31st, 2009, 05:27 pm
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What's strange to you? The fact that the ads themselves exist or that he mentioned them?
I've seen the ads. I think they're funny and odd. Would I bring it up on a second date? Only if I knew my date wasn't uptight about this and could see the humor in it.
I'm not saying you are uptight. But why does this bother you? Do you think he was hinting that he needs enlargement products? OR that he's only after sex? Or he's a perv? What really bothers you about this? Is it possible he thought it was funny and odd too and was making "small" talk? (pardon the pun)
- August 31st, 2009, 05:42 pm
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Did he mention whether or not he used any of those products? Perhaps he wanted you to ask...

O.K. I just freaked myself out so... that is a little weird... dump him...
- August 31st, 2009, 06:06 pm
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I don't find it weird at all - I think he was just making talk. I find the timing of those commercials funny too.
- August 31st, 2009, 06:08 pm
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LizziePooh wrote :
I don't find it weird at all - I think he was just making talk. I find the timing of those commercials funny too.
I sometimes wonder what will happen if women take those. Will any body part(s) of ours become bigger?
- August 31st, 2009, 06:12 pm
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I don't think it is weird if he just mentioned "I was up late one night and all that was on television was ads for penii enlargement." It would be weird if he went on for an hour describing in detail how each product works, etc...

You should have asked which product he found most useful for him.
- August 31st, 2009, 06:13 pm
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EMTZ wrote :
I sometimes wonder what will happen if women take those. Will any body part(s) of ours become bigger?
ummmmm.... that would be no.
- August 31st, 2009, 06:14 pm
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Or perhaps he is trying to test if you two will be compatible in "laid-back-ness"
- August 31st, 2009, 06:15 pm
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EMTZ wrote :
I sometimes wonder what will happen if women take those. Will any body part(s) of ours become bigger?
Samantha in Sex and the City took the little blue pill...
- August 31st, 2009, 06:17 pm
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