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Ladyjuju is offline Ladyjuju Post #1  August 31,2009, 3:01pm
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You know ladies, out there in cyberspace, my Mom always told me to play hard to get, men go balistic over being ignored. I think it works quite well. Any one else ever tried it! ............again for the sake of this forum........I am just stating my opinion, you want to generalize, go for it!
 
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cardguy is offline cardguy Post #2  August 31,2009, 3:09pm
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I can't speak for all guys, but if I'm interested in someone the response I'm most attracted to is reciprocation from them. If I'm on the fence and a woman ignores me, I'll assume she's not interested and move on. I don't think that hiding what you're feeling and toying with the other person makes for a good start to a relationship.
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D_Lion is offline D_Lion Post #3  August 31,2009, 3:11pm
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I think women only play "hard to get," when they desperately need to be "got."
 
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How does that strategy working for 'ya?
 
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grneydldy is offline grneydldy Post #5  August 31,2009, 3:13pm
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D_Lion wrote :
I think women only play "hard to get," when they desperately need to be "got."

Too funny!
 
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jayjay is offline jayjay Post #6  August 31,2009, 3:14pm
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...things seem to have gotten quiet around here.

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Also, what I'm curious about is....if you're ignoring a man how do you actually get on a date with him? One good thing about this tactic is that you can pretend you're on a date with any man you see, because you'd be ignoring him anyway. lol
 
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EMTZ is offline EMTZ Post #7  August 31,2009, 3:15pm
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In my observation, men who easily get girls usually go crazy for those who ignore them because they are not used to get that treatment. However, those who can't take girls for granted usually like the easier-to-get better, again, because they are not used to it.
 
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brneyedangel is offline brneyedangel Post #8  August 31,2009, 3:17pm
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No, it really doesn't work--unless you really want to set the tone for an unhealthy relationship. Men like attention just as much as women do, and playing hard to get with a guy who is looking for a relationship will just leave him saying, "Next!"
 
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brneyedangel wrote :
No, it really doesn't work--unless you really want to set the tone for an unhealthy relationship. Men like attention just as much as women do, and playing hard to get with a guy who is looking for a relationship will just leave him saying, "Next!"
Exactly! Playing hard to get is a great way to filter out desirable men and unintentionally leaves you with insecure and needy guys.
 
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jayjay wrote :
if you're ignoring a man how do you actually get on a date with him?
You'd be surprised how persistent some men are, especially the heartthrob kind - it baffles them when a woman doesn't go ga-ga for them.

Having said that, one reason I don't play hard to get is because I can't help thinking that he will leave me as soon as he has me
 
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