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Insync is offline Insync Post #131  January 30,2010, 9:57am
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Be careful with this one! My experience has been that some been love that challenge, and love to try to break down your barriers. they are the very ones that usually are not good relationship material. I agree with the post from men who say that if a woman does not seem interested, they will probably move on. Men and women need to know that their efforts are being noticed. I have a huge crush on a shy guy right now. I think it is mutual, and if he were to continue showing interest, I would let him know that I liked him. Why risk losing a potentially great man?
 
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Nanette is offline Nanette Post #132  January 30,2010, 11:18am
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because "shy guys" that just stare longingly and never make a move are usually a royal pain down the road
 
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mrflyer is offline mrflyer Post #133  January 30,2010, 12:52pm
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gcoleman99 wrote :
The thing is, though... if he'd done exactly the same thing as that woman had done, I myself would have hammered him over it. I'm pretty sure others here would have done the same.
That's true of so many things in the dating world, though.
 
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gcoleman99 is offline gcoleman99 Post #134  January 30,2010, 6:46pm
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mrflyer wrote :
That's true of so many things in the dating world, though.
Not for me... I was just being specific about one thing, that Nanette just doesn't seem to get.
 
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Nanette wrote :
because "shy guys" that just stare longingly and never make a move are usually a royal pain down the road
Why is that? Just curious.....
 
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Nanette wrote :
because "shy guys" that just stare longingly and never make a move are usually a royal pain down the road
Why are they a PITA?
 
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Avalon1k wrote :
Why is that? Just curious.....
Why are they a PITA?
some (not all) shy men lack confidence and self esteem, which can lead them to be clingy, needy, and even overly possessive.
 
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scarlet13 wrote :
some (not all) shy men lack confidence and self esteem, which can lead them to be clingy, needy, and even overly possessive.
There's a big difference between shy and socially inept.
 
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