campaste is offline campaste Post #1  August 30,2009, 6:49pm
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so me and my ex have been split for about 4 months now. i still love her. ive loved her for about a year.
she wont talk to me, she avoids me and i dont know what to do.
i want to get over her but i just LOVE her.
what should i do?
 
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MelinCali is offline MelinCali Post #2  September 1,2009, 1:30pm
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Get out and do something with your friends, make new friends, get a hobby, get a pet....whatever. She is done with you and you need to move past your relationship just like she has. If you just keep dwelling on how much you love her, you won't be able to move on. It's over!
 
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brneyedangel is offline brneyedangel Post #3  September 1,2009, 3:50pm
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Welcome to the boards, campaste.

It sounds to me like your ex has moved on, and I think it's time you do the same thing. If she won't talk with you and she's avoiding you, then that's a very strong sign that she is done with this relationship.

MelinCali gave you some great advice about how to go about doing that. The important thing is to spend more time doing things that revolve around your interests and to spend less time focusing on her and how you feel about her. I would also advise not dating anyone until you give yourself time to get over this relationship.

Best of luck to you.
 
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chawks64 is offline chawks64 Post #4  September 1,2009, 5:01pm
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You have to build a life that does not involve your ex.

Building something isn't instantaneous - it takes time. But the more time and effort you put into it, the more you have a strong and stable structure.

You need to lay the foundation and start building now.
 
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