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Ladyjuju is offline Ladyjuju Post #1  August 30,2009, 6:08pm
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Oy, I was reading the thread on makeup and thought to myself, what about the ladies that park themselves in the "body shop" every couple of years! I guess that is ok for the guys! Fake Boobs, you will only know, ya think?? haha! wrong....fake boobs can be spotted a mile away! You guys are too much.. you want the beauty queen, but then again, you're not all that! You don't like too much makeup, but settle for fake boobs, as long as she is not wearing too much makeup! OMG, you guys are funny!! While I do not hold anything against a women for having fake boobs, or plastic surgery on other parts, more power to her, as long as it is done for her benefit and not any one else's!..........but please don't put a women down for wearing make up when she can't afford plastic surgery!! And speaking of plastic surgery, some of you guys could also park yourselves in the body shop! Contrary to popular belief, men do not age better than women!
 
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A thread like this, to be effective, requires you to identify your audience. Not all men go for fake boobs, so a gross generalization is just going to ruin any chance for reasonable discussion on this topic.

I personally prefer a woman who is au naturale. I'm not saying I would never date a woman with fake breasts, but if given the choice my preference is natural. I'm sure there are many other men who feel that way.
 
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And as for men wanting attractive women when they themselves may not be that attractive, I'll just say this:

1. Just because you're not that attractive doesn't mean you can't be attracted to someone who is attractive.

2. For the most part, women's definitions of attractiveness differ from men's. Women focus less on the physical in determining compatibility-- as is their tendency -- and men focus a little more on it, as is our tendency.
 
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tbesq wrote :
A thread like this, to be effective, requires you to identify your audience. Not all men go for fake boobs, so a gross generalization is just going to ruin any chance for reasonable discussion on this topic.

I personally prefer a woman who is au naturale. I'm not saying I would never date a woman with fake breasts, but if given the choice my preference is natural. I'm sure there are many other men who feel that way.
Wow, it took a man to properly call them what they are...breasts.
 
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tbesq wrote :
And as for men wanting attractive women when they themselves may not be that attractive, I'll just say this:

1. Just because you're not that attractive doesn't mean you can't be attracted to someone who is attractive.

2. For the most part, women's definitions of attractiveness differ from men's. Women focus less on the physical in determining compatibility-- as is their tendency -- and men focus a little more on it, as is our tendency.
\Not sure where you get your facts from, but women like pretty things! and they usually like their men attractive, I don't know too many women who don't. Women actually do focus on the physical, hate to tell ya! You just have to look at some of threads here to be convinced! Wow! to say that men focus on attraction and women don't, that is a bold statement, Volunteer or not, your out of your element!! on this one baby!
 
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Ladyjuju wrote :
\Not sure where you get your facts from, but women like pretty things! and they usually like their men attractive, I don't know too many women who don't. Women actually do focus on the physical, hate to tell ya! You just have to look at some of threads here to be convinced! Wow! to say that men focus on attraction and women don't, that is a bold statement, Volunteer or not, your out of your element!! on this one baby!
I know that women think looks are very important, but not many of them admit it upfront...it usually takes a little prodding and patient during the "beauty is on the inside" diatribe. Your bluntness makes you an exception in this regard, and likely in many other sex-war friendly topics as well.

I've been reading these threads a lot longer than you have, and I can say without equivocation that your viewpoints on this subject are not the majority opinion. Just trying to be helpful as you "assimilate" into this community. Looks like others are trying to help you as well. I'd take the advice.
 
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tbesq wrote :
A thread like this, to be effective, requires you to identify your audience. Not all men go for fake boobs, so a gross generalization is just going to ruin any chance for reasonable discussion on this topic.

I personally prefer a woman who is au naturale. I'm not saying I would never date a woman with fake breasts, but if given the choice my preference is natural. I'm sure there are many other men who feel that way.
I will side with you on the natruale part, but I think you are being a little harsh on her post. She is generalizing and speaking her opinion. She was not calling you out right??

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I will side with you on the natruale part, but I think you are being a little harsh on her post. She is generalizing and speaking her opinion. She was not calling you out right??

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And I am disagreeing with her and giving my opinion, as I am also allowed to do. It doesn't mean that I'm being harsh. Depending on the tone of a board member's post the tone of my responses will differ accordingly. Besides that, she has made quite a stir here in her brief time on eHA, and as a CL my responsibility is to help her by painting a realistic picture regarding how she is perceived and how to best enjoy participation on these boards.
 
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Ladyjuju wrote :
\Not sure where you get your facts from, but women like pretty things! and they usually like their men attractive, I don't know too many women who don't. Women actually do focus on the physical, hate to tell ya! You just have to look at some of threads here to be convinced! Wow! to say that men focus on attraction and women don't, that is a bold statement, Volunteer or not, your out of your element!! on this one baby!
^^And your response is nonsensical and sweeping.

I would much rather have a man that valued me and our relationship rather than be drop dead gorgeous. I would much rather have a man that's a good provider and doting father than be a "head-turner."

Do I need to have some level of physical attraction for him? Absolutely! But "attractive" people can be "ugly" if they have poor character.
 
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Laughingdaily wrote :
I think you are being a little harsh on her post. She is generalizing and speaking her opinion.
On the contrary. He is doing what has needed to be done in every thread that the OP has started, which take the poorly informed position of "This is my opinion, and of course it is right because 'everyone knows' that ..."

IMO her threads only serve to inflame and spark argument.

Not to mention, that the topics are totally pointless.

Keep it up tbesq, I for one appreciate it.
 
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