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Sorry, but I think you are trying to wreck you chance, here!

Quit this “playing it cool,” and any other kind of playing. If you like her, call and ask her … and get a commitment from her to meet.

Really, I think you need to take charge.
- August 30th, 2009, 04:03 pm
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joeyjoe wrote :
Always better to think with your big head first than your little head. But, I'll give it a shot. After all, I do believe she said to anyone else to call her in front of everyone. I think I played it cool to the tip though. She just gave it to me Friday night, Saturday morning. Don't want her to think I am desperate or something. Call her Wednesday or Thursday.

Umm, people, can you throw out some topics to talk about? Thinks that are very easy and non-stressing??
Wednesday or Thursday??
Whaaaat?
You're playing it cool to the tip, alright.

You're about to cool yourself right outta the ballpark.
- August 30th, 2009, 04:15 pm
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joeyjoe wrote :
Umm, people, can you throw out some topics to talk about? Thinks that are very easy and non-stressing??
Your profile says you are 30. For Pete's sake, do you have any experience talking to people?

To be honest, this thread is a bit unbelievable. I wonder if there are some... ummm... "special circumstances" that you haven't explained to us. You said the lass in question as "has a job". Why wouldn't a typical 30-year-old? And that there are "meetups" which you haven't explained yet, and a "group" organizer.
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- August 30th, 2009, 04:26 pm
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joeyjoe wrote :
.......... I think I played it cool to the tip though. She just gave it to me Friday night, Saturday morning. Don't want her to think I am desperate or something. Call her Wednesday or Thursday.....

By Wednesday or Thursday she will already have plans for the weekend with other guys, and you will be SOL. Call her today.
- August 30th, 2009, 04:32 pm
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D_Lion wrote :
Sorry, but I think you are trying to wreck you chance, here!

Quit this “playing it cool,” and any other kind of playing. If you like her, call and ask her … and get a commitment from her to meet.

Really, I think you need to take charge.
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Wednesday or Thursday??
Whaaaat?
You're playing it cool to the tip, alright.

You're about to cool yourself right outta the ballpark.
Good stuff!!!
- August 30th, 2009, 05:43 pm
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Joeyjoey...man...what are we going to do with you?

Call this gal by Monday. Lock her up for a Friday or Saturday night DATE. Not meetup. Not group meeting. Not the National Lords of Worldcraft gaming convention opening ceremony. But a date. Like men and women do. And then do your thing. The thing that caused an attractive woman to give you her number in the first place. We can't tell you what to say. You'll have to figure that out on your own like we all did. Good luck and report next week. You have your orders.
- August 30th, 2009, 05:54 pm
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Don't overanalyze. She said to call you, she gave you her number. If you're interested in her, call her. The worst that can happen is she says no or she ignores your calls. You can live with that.
- August 30th, 2009, 05:57 pm
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I'tS SiMpLe CaLl HeR, DoNt wAiT To lOnG Or eLsE sHe mIgHT NoT ReMeMbER YoU
- August 30th, 2009, 06:01 pm
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dawn87 wrote :
I'tS SiMpLe CaLl HeR, DoNt wAiT To lOnG Or eLsE sHe mIgHT NoT ReMeMbER YoU

Is this a ransom notice?
- August 30th, 2009, 06:03 pm
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