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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
I only had one date in high school when I was a senior and she was a junior so I would not be seeing her at a reunion. All the girls in my class were way out of my league so the only "heart throbs" were fantasies. When I went to my 30th reunion there were some girls that were hot in high school and were still hot. And they were now single and were at the reunion without dates as was I but never hooked up with any of them as they are still out of my league.

That's what I do not understand, why are they again........out of your league........so many years later?
- August 27th, 2009, 09:30 pm
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My first real boyfriend is married and even more gorgeous, but I think his wife might get a little cranky...

My first, um, you know... is a very nice guy (I know, the kiss of death), but just not in ANY way attractive at all. Nope. Not gonna happen. Besides, my mom would kill me because she knows he was my first, um, you know...
- August 27th, 2009, 09:56 pm
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My first, um, you know... is a very nice guy (I know, the kiss of death), but just not in ANY way attractive at all. Nope. Not gonna happen. Besides, my mom would kill me because she knows he was my first, um, you know...
- August 27th, 2009, 10:21 pm
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Didn't go to my first couple of reunions, but finally went to one just hoping to run into the old heartthrob. And he was not just my heartthrob - we all wanted him. He was voted most likely to succeed, most handsome, most everything. Apparently the garbage hauling business is quite successful. So much so that there is no time to sneak in a quick bath before one's reunion. And handsome wears filthy tees with horrid holes letting little glimpses of oh so horrid flesh peek through. And he hit on me when his wife left early. Such a terrible let down after all those years of adoration. Wish I'd never gone.
- August 27th, 2009, 10:26 pm
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We don't have school reunions over here the same as we don't have proms, or at least most don't, but i do occasionaly run into people i went to school with and end up chatting about old times. Acting on crushes would be difficult though, most of the ones i had were for teachers.
- August 27th, 2009, 10:41 pm
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there is no time to sneak in a quick bath before one's reunion. And handsome wears filthy tees with horrid holes letting little glimpses of oh so horrid flesh peek through. And he hit on me when his wife left early.

Eeeuuww! Just... eeeuuww!
- August 27th, 2009, 10:47 pm
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I've never gone to any of my high school reunions - #35 was this year - because they're expensive and I'm just not into the "back to the past" thing. I only remember about 15 or so names and have kept in touch with the three that I was close to, so no need to go. Absolutely no crushes or ex-boyfriends among my classmates.

Now, some of my old university professors, that's a different story.
- August 28th, 2009, 04:26 am
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Ladyjuju wrote :
That's what I do not understand, why are they again........out of your league........so many years later?
Yeah dude, for real. If your reunions are anything like mine, most of the men are fat, totally gray (if they have any hair left at all), pretty much inactive (a lot are dead) and a lot haven't really advanced to anything.

I've seen your picture and you're none of those.

My reunions have lots of pickens if I wanted 'em. See my next post.
- August 28th, 2009, 06:23 am
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To the OP, BTDT.

At my 5th reunion (a long time ago) I hooked up with my old girlfriend from junior year. I had just gotten out of the Navy and she was married and separated already.

That lasted about 3 years on and off.

Lesson learned: Don't get involved with someone who isn't divorced yet.
- August 28th, 2009, 06:27 am
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Ladyjuju wrote :
That's what I do not understand, why are they again........out of your league........so many years later?
The people who were in the "in crowd" in high school don't usually fall from being part of the sucessful, popular group. As adults they become sucessful in their careers and part of the country club set. Those of us who were not afforded the opportunities as children don't usually grow up to join the "in crowd" as adults.

Obviously you were part of the popular group in high school or you would have understood this.
- August 28th, 2009, 08:25 am
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