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Confession is offline Confession Post #1  August 27,2009, 3:10pm
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A woman asked this question on another thread. Given that it is a sensitive topic to many women and will likely tick off a lot of people, it is a perfect topic for the most candid person you will ever meet.

Ladies, men who are height / weight proportionate have a mental barrier with womens weight at around size 12. In other words, they won't consider having sex with a woman who is larger than a size 12.

Personally, I have been a little on the fat side most of my life and tended to like women with a little meat on their bones. However, as a photographer, I had had the opportunity to take a serious scientific study of what I found to be attractive. I have seen a few women who were size 16 whom I thought were still attractive. However, I have never seen a woman larger than size 16 whom I considered attractive.

There you have it. Ladies, if you are in double digits you have significantly limited your dating possibilities.

How much weight is too much for a man? Well, you need to ask my female counterpart for an answer to that question.
 
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See my post on the other thread.
 
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a size 12? really? how well do you know women's sizes? a woman who is 5 feet tall could be a 12 and so could a woman who is 6 feet tall. That makes no sense.

Use photos or give a better idea to people what you are talking about your just going to confuse people AND tick them off.
 
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cp30 wrote :
a size 12? really? how well do you know women's sizes? a woman who is 5 feet tall could be a 12 and so could a woman who is 6 feet tall. That makes no sense.

Use photos or give a better idea to people what you are talking about your just going to confuse people AND tick them off.
Yes, what you said.
 
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Another weight thread? When there were already two weight threads going today?

Surely, you jest.
 
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Confession wrote :
they won't consider having sex with a woman who is larger than a size....
And I won't consider having sex with a man who is larger than...
oh!... wait!... You're talking clothing size!
 
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And while you are out there getting some diagrams and photos of women together for me, maybe you could post one of yourself too...full length please, shirtless, and please let us know the waist and inseam of your pants...and don't forget your height.

I'd like to make a complete assesment to see if I could have sex with you.
 
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There's another important measurement you are leaving out.
 
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The 3rd leg measurement is missing.
 
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Come on guys, you know it can't be proven that guys are any smarter with larger...brains. That is why I left that one out. I'm trying to be fair and level the playing field.

Anyway, I like'em kinda dumb otherwise they think too much and have a tendency to get depressive. I'm visual.
 
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