jojo078 is offline jojo078 Post #1  August 26,2009, 4:41pm
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Last Wens I had a wonderful eve dinner with a guy I met online date. We had dinner, great conversation, drinks, coffee...3 hrs. He asked me out for another date when he would be returning in a week from a trip. I said great. He walked me to my car and had a great hug and sexy kiss. He said that it was a wonderful eve.? This is the first time this has happened to me?....he never called, txtd, emailed...nothing.??? What do you think? Jo
 
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Is he back from his trip yet? Perhaps he meant that he would call you when he returned? Or, did you have a definite day and time set up for your date?
 
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OK...let me get this straight,
Last Wednesday...exactly a week ago, a guy you went on a date with said he'll call you when he gets back from a trip, in a week. What's the problem? Even if he came back this morning, do you expect him to run to the phone and call you immediatly? Let the guy unpack his clothes first.
Or.
Stop looking at the clock.
 
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Comedian is offline Comedian Post #4  August 26,2009, 5:42pm
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What I read over and over again on these boards is that people want to know RIGHT NOW what is going on.
Unfortunately, patience will serve you better here.
Hopefully he will call, but you haven't given it enough time yet.
 
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jojo078 wrote :
What do you think? Jo
I think it's time to take a step back Jo.

If he doesn't contact you by Sunday send him an email. Don't rush things...
 
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