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graceventually is offline graceventually Post #31  August 26,2009, 2:33pm
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butterflywhisperer wrote :
P.S.: He provided me with seminaries, etc. but I don't know his last name nor he mine.He'll find out mine soon enough because my father is dying and there will be an obit and he knows my father is in hospice. Dad is going as peacefully and as comfortably as possible. He likes me to sing to him which I do, etc. Anyhow, with the details I have given him, it wouldn't even take an "engineer" to figure that one out. What are suggestions for going about finding his last name. I'm not the stalker type but don't want to come across as I am trying to pry into his privacy. Suggestions?
Ask him what church he pastors, then look it up. If it has a website or a facebook page (or a link from a denominational page if it's a denominational church) it won't be hard to find.

If, that is, you really have the energy for this right now. I am so sorry to hear about your dad. I hope you all are having a positive experience with hospice (in my opinion, they are usually angels on earth) and I hope things go as easily as possible for him as he sails into that "next great adventure". Hugs and prayers during this difficult time.
 
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He sounds like a wannabie agent.

What else is he hiding? Do you really want to shake this can upside down to find out?

End it now unless you want to live in the world of constant little white lie.
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DennisWisconsin wrote :
He sounds like a wannabie agent.

What else is he hiding? Do you really want to shake this can upside down to find out?

End it now unless you want to live in the world of constant little white lie.
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Have you ever heard of geocaching? eHarmony Advice Groups:
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Hmmm.... wannabie agent? Please enlighten me as to the meaning of your response. I would appreciate a little more concrete answer.
 
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butterflywhisperer wrote :
Hmmm.... wannabie agent? Please enlighten me as to the meaning of your response. I would appreciate a little more concrete answer.
In answer to your question, sure I've heard of geocaching, but have never participated in one. I read the conversation you had in the hyperlink your added to my reply. The one thing that wasn't mentioned is that you don't take anything from the cache. You just see what you can find and then return it for the next person to find. It is on the honour system, of course, but it sure wouldn't be fun to find the location only to learn it has been looted alredy or doesn't exist. Not really part of the fun, its the hunt that the fun part.
 
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I agree with many of the other post here. I know people that have degrees and are trained in one area, but for various reasons, work in another area. In fact, my job title says one thing, but if you look at what I really do day to day, my job title isn't accurate at all. However, I hold the title, because I'm qualified to hold it and I think someone (not me) thinks it looks good on paper. He may have a really good explanation for this. Besides, if he's a good person and you're enjoying his company, the I wouldn't let the job title throw you that much.
 
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