therecanbeonlyone is offline therecanbeonlyone Post #1  August 24,2009, 3:38pm
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Since I know that theres a lot of actual women that read and post here,are there any single lady's who are also having a hard time with finding a real person match? I figure my odds have got to be better here where I can get responses from actual people versus the ghost profiles.If so please let me know and we can get to know each other better and work out the details somehow.
 
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Hmm ...

Maybe I should try this!

Ladies?
 
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sigh. you sound like quite the opportunist you might want to start by just getting to know people, how they feel about things, and just developing a friendship. The details would then work themself out.

I don't think you start with the details...
 
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therecanbeonlyone wrote :
Since I know that theres a lot of actual women that read and post here,are there any single lady's who are also having a hard time with finding a real person match? I figure my odds have got to be better here where I can get responses from actual people versus the ghost profiles.If so please let me know and we can get to know each other better and work out the details somehow.
funny...I was thinking this exact same thing last week...
 
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What an interesting approach.
 
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It would help if you filled in your profile a bit more, such as where you live, and maybe what your interests are, so we could figure out if you live near us and have anything in common.

Lately I've been getting a lot of responses on eH. Too many. I think I have 20 open and communicating matches right now, and at least 15 newer matches I haven't even looked at. Seems to be feast or famine.
 
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Just start with..."I am Duncan MacLeod of the clan MacLeod..." and put your profile pic as Adrian Paul and we will be over you!!! (Well, at least me).

But for here...I think this is a brilliant place for guys to find women. For me, I need to get a feel for a guy's personality before I am attracted to them and this place just lends itself to that.

For strategy, don't do cold-turkey like this. Just get out there and post on different things and let you shine through. Then get your flirt on...

Well, that is what I would do if I was a guy. The guys here should really start taking advantage of the fact that any man that is not unattractive still has the potential to be very attractive to a woman and this is a great place to try that theory out.
 
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O.K.,when I said details I dont know what I was thinking.I guess kinda like how we should go about getting to know each other maybe.I didnt stop to think that I left absolutely no info anywhere on here about me.I guess if any lady between the ages of about 20-34 and live somewhat close to northern Montana please leave me a message and I can give a lot more info to you.I'm just sigetting tired of being sent all these "matches" that dont respond or are very flighty.I assure I am not a hideous troll of a man.I just kinda feel that the whole eharmony matching process is a little screwed up.I'm 29 by the way.
 
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We may be on to something, here our personalities and quirks are on display. If those are attractive and interesting maybe the connections will actually be more desirable. I know that my sense of humor can be uncomfortable for those who are more serious. We might as well go for it, what is there to lose?
 
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therecanbeonlyone wrote :
Since I know that theres a lot of actual women that read and post here,are there any single lady's who are also having a hard time with finding a real person match? I figure my odds have got to be better here where I can get responses from actual people versus the ghost profiles.If so please let me know and we can get to know each other better and work out the details somehow.
Maybe you could share a little about yourself...
 
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