Well it is good to get some advice, and pretending to be someone i am not, or acting in some ways i usually don't that is ridiculous...we have to be polite and gentle and kind, but still good to be ourselves...in the long run that will show up eventually!!!
If a guy is clean and clothes aren't wrinkled and hair / beard / mustache is not unkempt (why isn't kempt a word?) and shoes are polished or at least not ragged, and he has a good sense of humor, strong sense of self, can express himself maturely and discuss whatever with an open mind, holds the door open for me, asks my opinion, and gives me a wink or a clue - THAT makes a fabulous first impression.
Use capital letters when required in any written communication - especially at the beginning and make sure you do this with your profile as well! Punctuation speaks volumes! It's a REAL pet peeve of mine and I will skip over a profile that is written in lower-case letters every time!
I do still eat and drink the things I shouldn't sometimes. I'd stop if I needed an Epi-Pen but none of my allergies are severe enough for that yet. I feel for you, Legend. –
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