johnnytwo is offline johnnytwo Post #1  August 23,2009, 10:40am
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I think the whole players/nice guys thing needs a new thread.

[COLOR=black][FONT=Cambria][FONT=Arial]I feel this disparity is predicated on attitudes to deceit as much as behavior. I mean, the difference isn’t that one have multi-able relationships and the other has none. I would imagine certain problems with someone who has no friends; boredom for a start. So is a “player” must be someone who presents as dull, but is actually interesting. Or maybe just fails to disclose the myriad of relationships they may have. And which you mightn’t quite understand anyway.
 
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Post is too long and confusing to read the whole thing. But I have seen this same post a few days ago. Didn't you get the answer you wanted?

Anyhow a "player" is someone who is interested in dating someone for the conquest and not for the interest in the person. Once the prize has been won (and it may not be sex) the "player" will move on to their next conquest. A "player" is usually assumed to be a guy, however, I have know women that behave this way.
 
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I am not sure what you are asking but if you are saying you are a player you may be right. You seem to be dating the whole alphabet.

I got played once... and the sex was great and he was tons of fun. He was a sex addict it turned out and had to have LOTS of women at all different stages of relationship. He was an attorney and therefore a skillful liar and manipulator of the truth. I think he also must be a sociopath as he was fearless and had no idea that what he was doing was wrong. He sure was surprised when I found out and blew his cover.

He told me that he was good at saying "hello" and I was good at saying "good bye." It turned out he was right.
 
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