Is it okay to ask a guy to get tested before I sleep with him?


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DreamingOfJustice is offline DreamingOfJustice Post #51  August 25,2009, 4:58pm
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That's a poor rejoinder, considering what is at stake.

Ladies, ignore men who try to insist that 'condoms dont feel good' or 'it's too small for me' or 'it feels like washing with rubber gloves on'...

These men are putting their own preferences before your (and their own) safety.

Condoms are the only real barrier method for prevention of transmission of HIV. There have been many improvements in the manufacturing technology since Mr. Burning Wrecked Car has appaently last employed one.






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That's a poor rejoinder, considering what is at stake.

Ladies, ignore men who try to insist that 'condoms dont feel good' or 'it's too small for me' or 'it feels like washing with rubber gloves on'...

These men are putting their own preferences before your (and their own) safety.

Condoms are the only real barrier method for prevention of transmission of HIV. There have been many improvements in the manufacturing technology since Mr. Burning Wrecked Car has appaently last employed one.

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Case Closed.

By the way- guys- condoms have ribbed interiors, raised dots along the outside, and are thinner than ever. A properly worn condom (that's another subject) can actually enhance sensations for both parties. Dont let outdated attitudes put your health at risk.

Condoms are put through rigorous mechanical testing during the Quality Control of their production. Condoms are able to accommodate any size guy. The lambskin condoms do not protect against HIV because they are porous to viruses, but not human sperm.

One of the great assets about condoms is they're very portable, and fit easily into a ladies' purse or wallet. They are one of the few ways women and men can easily protect themselves against unwanted pregnancy and HIV. Have the 'safe sex' conversations out of the bedroom, in a neutral place. You should never feel pressured to not protect yourself, ever. That itself might be an acid test for the relationship.








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