Is it okay to ask a guy to get tested before I sleep with him?


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tumbleweed is offline tumbleweed Post #31  August 24,2009, 5:55am
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It's a wise idea to both get tested prior to having sex. You do have to trust that the other partner is exclusive with you though. I also encourage you to get the hepatitis-B vaccination series; as hep-B is more common than HIV.

I was tested about 2 weeks ago and I had to fill out a risk factor questionnaire. One of the questions was "Have you ever had sex with someone you met on the internet". Amusing...
dos this mean we should were condoms on our fingers so we dont catch something
 
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Yes.
 
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tumbleweed wrote :
i could debate you this all day with your own bible but this isnt the church channel,
You might have difficulty debating me with my "bible". I am non-theistic tending toward ignosticism (not agnosticism) -- The view that a coherent definition of God must be presented before the question of the existence of God can be meaningfully discussed. Furthermore, if that definition is unfalsifiable, the ignostic takes the theological noncognitivist position that the question of the existence of God (per that definition) is meaningless. In this case, the concept of God is not considered meaningless; the term "God" is considered meaningless..Ignosticism - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

What is there to debate (here or elsewhere)?
 
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here kitty kittyif you knew what that ment at a truck stop youd be shocked,,if you want to find out just go there at night and flash your lights once and the kittys will come a running
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tumbleweed wrote :
dos this mean we should were condoms on our fingers so we dont catch something
Technically if you have a cut or scratch then some would say yes, i know a few who insist on dental dams too.
 
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JDavid wrote :
You might have difficulty debating me with my "bible". I am non-theistic tending toward ignosticism (not agnosticism) -- The view that a coherent definition of God must be presented before the question of the existence of God can be meaningfully discussed. Furthermore, if that definition is unfalsifiable, the ignostic takes the theological noncognitivist position that the question of the existence of God (per that definition) is meaningless. In this case, the concept of God is not considered meaningless; the term "God" is considered meaningless..Ignosticism - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

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im telling on you, your using them big old words[noncognitivist] that hert just to wright it i dont dare try to say it
 
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"I'm clean, are you?"

That's all I say. She nods, or doesn't, and we move along.

I always ask just before the act. Not at dinner, not during casual conversation. I ask when she and I are gudeneked. Any other time is presumptious and rude.

A couple of times I've asked afterwards, you know, not real smart, but hey, I'm a dog, right.

I say, "All right, you won't have anything tomorrow that you didn't wake up with this morning. Will I?"

I always ask, before, after... but not during.

Oh, and my WIFE was the last woman I had unprotected sex with. My next WIFE will be the next. Even if she's fixed, I can't be sure she's monogomous, or that she isn't in that no-symptom stage.

WRAP IT.


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Glad to see you use condoms,,'cause asking someone if they're 'clean' isnt going to get you an accurate answer as to their HIV status.

About 232,700 persons in the US do not know their sero-status -that refers to their own HIV status. Those statistics are based upon a Centers for Disease Control and Prevention poster, presented at The CROI in 2006. The brief poster summary is hereCROI 2009 Abstract #1036)







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"I'm clean, are you?"

That's all I say. She nods, or doesn't, and we move along.

I always ask just before the act. Not at dinner, not during casual conversation. I ask when she and I are gudeneked. Any other time is presumptious and rude.

A couple of times I've asked afterwards, you know, not real smart, but hey, I'm a dog, right.

I say, "All right, you won't have anything tomorrow that you didn't wake up with this morning. Will I?"

I always ask, before, after... but not during.

Oh, and my WIFE was the last woman I had unprotected sex with. My next WIFE will be the next. Even if she's fixed, I can't be sure she's monogomous, or that she isn't in that no-symptom stage.

WRAP IT.


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Excuse me, but hecky yeah!
Actually, to ensure you both are on the same page you should initiate it by getting one yourself. Intimacy is beautiful but unfortunately we may have many partners before meeting the One. There's confidence in knowing that when you meet the One you don't have in baggage you can't get rid off.
 
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