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O.K. maybe I'm just a little to critical about this so the more responses I get the better.How long should one wait before realizing that your "match" just isnt all that into you and close them out?Example:One woman I had closed out because I simply wasnt going to try and do a long distance relationship again.She left a closing message that "maybe If we had met you might think differently".So I opened back up and we got to the final stages of communication in no time at all and even exchanged about three messages each.That was exactly one week ago.Not a word from her since.I even said how annoying that was in one of my messages and she totally agreed.I absolutely will not buy that one is to busy too log on and leave even a brief message.That's a bunch of crap.I have two jobs and I'm a single dad and I still find the time.This example mentioned above really bummed me out because she requested me to give her a chance and now I feel again that I've wasted my time with this.There really is no excuse for this in my opinion unless it was an emergency that you just cannot find the time.How can you go from messaging three or more times in a day to absolutely nothing?I'm pretty sure I know what a reasonable amount of time is,what are your opinions?
 
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