LovelyRita is offline LovelyRita Post #1  August 21,2009, 4:48pm
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Met online several weeks ago. Spoke on the phone several times, and things really clicked. He wanted to meet up, but being a longshoreman he said a ship was coming in and he had to work. This has happened twice. We texted a few more times, but he has not called or texted in the last week. Should I be aggressive and contact him, or is he just not interested.
 
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Nanette is offline Nanette Post #2  August 21,2009, 4:54pm
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if hes interested he'll contact you. no guy would willingly let someone that they were truly interested in go. instead of thinking of it in terms of waiting, i would just get on with life and continue to date. if he calls, he calls
 
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LovelyRita wrote :
Met online several weeks ago. Spoke on the phone several times, and things really clicked. He wanted to meet up, but being a longshoreman he said a ship was coming in and he had to work. This has happened twice. We texted a few more times, but he has not called or texted in the last week. Should I be aggressive and contact him, or is he just not interested.
I would say he is not that interested. Move on to other matches that are interested in you.
 
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In my view, this one could go either way.
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Nanette wrote :
if hes interested he'll contact you. no guy would willingly let someone that they were truly interested in go. instead of thinking of it in terms of waiting, i would just get on with life and continue to date. if he calls, he calls
ditto!
 
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