I can't stop daydreaming...someone slap me


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I've been emailing with someone for a couple of months now, but because he is in the military, and away on a mission, we can't meet yet. I don't want to let him know this, but I've been daydreaming about him all the time and I can't get any work done. I know it's ridiculous as I have never met him before, and I keep telling myself to stop this. Someone help me. I can't believe that I'm in this state.
 
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Ahh ... the imagination at it's best ... keep dreaming. You'll wake up soon enough!
 
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It would be my pleasure. Keep daydreaming....only now dream about all the chicks he's banging while he's away.
 
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jayjay wrote :
It would be my pleasure. Keep daydreaming....only now dream about all the chicks he's banging while he's away.
LOL ... good one jayjay!
 
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Thanks for your replies. I must be desperate. I know that this guy is married, but he says that he's in the middle of a divorce that will be finalized by the time he comes back from his mission in October, and I actually believe this. I'm attractive and well-educated. I have two kids, but I'm financially stable and can take care of myself and them. Despite all of this, I feel I must be desperate to look forward to this guy's emails so much. He has a way with words that make him sound so nice and considerate and fun.
 
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parakeetjordan wrote :
Thanks for your replies.
I cant believe you just thanked them for those replies.

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I know that this guy is married, but he says that he's in the middle of a divorce that will be finalized by the time he comes back from his mission in October,
I really would date others until his divorce is at least final.


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He has a way with words
I would not put a lot of stock in this.
 
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Well, I asked them to slap me so I guess I thought they were trying to do what I asked. I feel stupid. I should be smarter than this.
 
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Well, I asked them to slap me so I guess I thought they were trying to do what I asked. I feel stupid. I should be smarter than this.
Can you distract yourself with something else? I would go out and make plans to do something with friends if you can.
 
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Nanette... My mind tells me that I should not put much stock in this, but my heart won't listen and won't give up on him, and is actually trying to use excuses to convince my mind that this is okay. Thank goodness for this site, as I could not advice on this matter anywhere else. You would think as a mom, and a mature woman, who is also an attorney so I am well-educated that I would be more poised than this, that I would think logically, but I'm finding to my utter dismay that I not, and I feel stupid.
 
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He must think I'm stupid for accepting his lies if he is lying. I should probably think of him laughing at me to pull myself out of this mess.
 
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