KungFuFtr is offline KungFuFtr Post #21  August 20,2009, 6:45am
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Judgmental? Maybe...
Seems a little harmless and innocent joke to me. If anything he sounds like a sap (pun intended). I'd give him another chance.
 
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kevin76 wrote :
How well do you know this guy? This is confusing me - you know him well enough to suggest having breakfast, but you don't know him well enough to know his sense of humor?

I'm going to take the middle road, and say 'take it as a warning sign, but not a stop sign.' Anybody can say the wrong thing once in a while, refusing to date somebody who slipped up once is a sure road to dying alone. Have breakfast with him (and apologize for being silly, but let him know that's not your style of humor.) BUT if he makes a habit of saying things that gross you out, then it is a good sign you're not compatible and should move on.

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As a footnote, sounds to me like he was probably half-joking, while at the same time he is attracted to you and wanted to see how you would respond. Also sounds to me like you're NOT attracted to him, if you find the idea of a 'cuddle' gross.
C'mon, give the guy points for trying, and give him another chance.
I take the middle ground too.
 
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No I think you are right on. OMG I hate Vista...it took over my hard drive and I can't even type. Anyways....yes your intuition was right on in this case.
 
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Babily wrote :
A guy asked me to hang out with him in the morning and I suggested having breakfast. I had some cute little pancake place in mind. He texted me back saying: "O breakfast? That's the key to my heart! Then cuddle? You can be the waffle, I will be the syrup."

That totally grossed me out and I stopped talking to him. Ever since then, he calls and texts, he said it was a joke, but I just can't get over that stupid joke, so I can't get myself to go out with him.

Am I too judgmental?
That was no joke. "Then cuddle" was a clear indication of what he was after.
 
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flgal is offline flgal Post #26  August 23,2009, 5:45am
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I'm one for following your instincts. If his comment made you feel uncomfortable, then you did the right thing by stopping communication with him. Don't second guess yourself.
 
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