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A big NO to being friends from me. I tried that when I broke up with my ex. That didn't work out so well. Too many hard feelings led to him calling me terrible (and undeserved) names. Needless to say I haven't talked to him since then.

Save yourself some trouble and just forget him.
- August 19th, 2009, 09:31 am
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Nope, don't be his friend. He is giving you a run-around. What if 3 weeks later, he changes his mind, when you already moved on?

Plus, he asked you out while he was working. Very unprofessional. Do you want someone who treats his job like that?
- August 23rd, 2009, 12:10 am
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Two words of advice for guys....S-L-O-W D-O-W-N!! Most guys come on way too fast and furious. Look you can act interested, but really slow down okay?

I vote no..to being friends.
- August 23rd, 2009, 12:38 am
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Personally, I would back away from the guy completely.
- August 23rd, 2009, 07:47 am
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