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I agree. I would not *dream* of taking advantage of the man I am with now. No way. Why? Because I respect him waaaaay too much to do that. And I am betting, he would not allow it. Also, I just wouldn't want to do that with anyone I am with, friend or otherwise.

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The tendency to walk over someone that lets us? Hmmm

That is a cop out & I have to call you on that. Jayjay does make the point that people can get lazy & that can lead to taking advantage of someone. It may be somewhat understandable but does not make it respectable.

That may be more acceptable in a sisterly relationship where you are taking care of the finances but that should not happen in a romantic relationship. There is a difference there.
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