sammy2003 is offline sammy2003 Post #1  August 15,2009, 11:56pm
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Last night I went on a first date with a guy - it was horrible! When I wouldn't tell him where I work he said he was a realitor and could find out where I live. I told him I wasn't listed at the house and I don't even have my mail sent there, he said he had ways.
Then he was telling me he keeps a gun in his car. He talked about being a recovering alcoholic but yet he was drinking a lemon drop. He talked about a few months ago he was hooked on GHB - who would willingly take a date rape drug is beyond me. I wanted to ditch him so bad, but he seemed so weird that I didn't feel safe telling him the truth. I excused myself to the restroom several times and after he was flat out rude to the comedian I told him I felt sick and had to leave. He actually said he'd call me later. I would have liked to have ditched him way earlier but didn't know how in a polite way.
So for next time I wanna ditch a date what do you suggest???
 
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MAC96 is offline MAC96 Post #2  August 22,2009, 3:03pm
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Use pepper spray. go for the eyes and nose.
 
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IcecreamMoon is offline IcecreamMoon Post #3  August 22,2009, 3:06pm
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Tell him you love him, that should take care of it
 
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D_Lion is offline D_Lion Post #4  August 22,2009, 3:08pm
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I despise being lied to and get upset about it.
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Tell him you have herpes.
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[quote=D_Lion;717918]I despise being lied to and get upset about it.
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um... i think you handled it fine. if he was dangerous- and we do not know that he was- i think you just have to ride it out. you seem to have been concerned about unnecessarily irritating him. and you didn't.

maybe next time try to find out a little more about the guy before you meet him...
 
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Be direct. Tell him it isn't working out, and thank him for taking time out of his day to meet with you. Open your cell. Phone your best friend and let him/her know what has happened and that you are on your way home. Get in your car and take the most complicated way home (if you think he's weird enough to follow), and warn all your girlfriend about him. If you met him from an online dating site, report what happened to them. Then, look forward to your next date with someone else.

Oh, and pepper spray isn't a bad idea, either.
 
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Oh, and pepper spray isn't a bad idea, either.

Especiallly if your salad is underseasoned!
 
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D_Lion wrote :
Especiallly if your salad is underseasoned!

I'lll even forgive you an extra l for that!
 
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