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Long story short.
I was matched with man.
We started guided communication.
By the 2nd questions we were in a debate.
Then when OC came, we were feisty, a few smileys, then I closed the match thinking a debate and quite possibly an argument do not make for a healthy foundation. However, a month later I kept thinking of him. I emailed eH and went through the process of Re-Opening the match. It was back to OC. We talked on the phone ONE time. And met for coffee today.
Neither of us even bothered getting coffee. We just sat there talking, laughing, and enjoying our meeting (which I was greeted with a hug).

We are both single parents (me full time) and the free time in our schedules is rare. How do I show interest, in a non overbearing way or clingy way. He has left the ball in my court to let him know when I am free again. Then ended with "have a nice weekend". Do I wait all weekend to find a day? Do I tell him, I don't really EVER have free time. If you really want to spend time with me, I will have to carve time in my schedule specifically for you. Which I would like to do, but you tell me when and where you want to hang out?

I like him, and now I'm stressing. This does not happen to me!
 
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