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I rarely go to a bar with someone I'm dating seriously. I usually go to bars to meet guys or to hang out with friends or co-workers. It's my gut feeling that most of the girls at a bar, if they're not holding hands with or constantly touching the guy they're with, are probably open to conversation. I think confidence is the key. You can walk up to people and if you smile and act relaxed, you can ask some completely off the wall question, and people will usually answer--if only to talk about something else than what they usually talk about. If there are guys, talk to one of the guys first. If a girl is into you, she might want to get into the conversation. Never compliment a girl on her face or body--it's so unoriginal and lets her know your motives right away. The best compliment I ever got in a bar was "you smell good". I was hooked!
- August 14th, 2009, 10:01 pm
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