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I have decided not to make a list..not to look and not to build a fantasy about my dream guy.

I'd rather be surrpised and let him find me. I want that guy who says "I am what you are looking for". He just knows because he has that confidence.

I have been single almost 8 years...there comes a point where you stop searching and let nature take its course.

Maybe I am a bit jaded, but this is realistic to me.
- August 14th, 2009, 08:04 pm
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i know what you mean. just let destiny takes it course.
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I have decided not to make a list..not to look and not to build a fantasy about my dream guy.

I'd rather be surrpised and let him find me. I want that guy who says "I am what you are looking for". He just knows because he has that confidence.

I have been single almost 8 years...there comes a point where you stop searching and let nature take its course.

Maybe I am a bit jaded, but this is realistic to me.
- August 14th, 2009, 09:16 pm
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Thank you Dr. Cupid. LOL. I hope you will come to our wedding.

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I don't know what his criteria are....but I think he needs to take a little trip to Boston.
- August 14th, 2009, 09:21 pm
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Thank you Dr. Cupid. LOL. I hope you will come to our wedding.
Sure. I'll get really drunk and disrupt the ceremony. lol
- August 14th, 2009, 09:23 pm
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jayjay wrote :
Sure. I'll get really drunk and disrupt the ceremony. lol
For some reason, I don't think you need a single drop of alcohol to do that!
- August 15th, 2009, 01:04 am
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CJF wrote :
I have decided not to make a list..not to look and not to build a fantasy about my dream guy.

I'd rather be surrpised and let him find me. I want that guy who says "I am what you are looking for". He just knows because he has that confidence.

I have been single almost 8 years...there comes a point where you stop searching and let nature take its course.

Maybe I am a bit jaded, but this is realistic to me.
I have not been single for 8 years, somewhere in the proximity of 2.5 now (I think), but I'm, of a similar mindset.

Fighting nature is futile, so the only option is to roll with it, or even better rock'n'roll!
- August 15th, 2009, 01:07 am
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Or maybe you've just dated real women, who want a real personality in a man, not a cardboard cutout with a blank expression on his face...
Oh damn, you mean i should take the James Bond cutout back to the cinema i stole it from?!?
- August 15th, 2009, 01:07 am
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Oh damn, you mean i should take the James Bond cutout back to the cinema i stole it from?!?
I don't really follow James Bond around much, I was convinced to go to the cinema and watch it once and I swore never to repeat this horrible mistake again. But if the cutout is of Timothy Dalton, you can keep it - I used to have a crush on him when I was about 15.
- August 15th, 2009, 01:57 am
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gothustartus wrote :
Friends aren't going to look at a profile the same way that someone looking for a relationship will, all that you proved was that your friends like you and that there are some superficial women hung up on a hot bod, the same as there being men hung up on boobs like zeppelins.
Hey, zeppelins are cool. No dissing the zeppelins.
- August 15th, 2009, 05:27 am
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You said it!
- August 15th, 2009, 05:40 am
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