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Nanette is offline Nanette Post #21  August 14,2009, 5:38am
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Wiseman2 wrote :
Always have a second cell phone/ number you can give out,as well as a free nonsense email and first name only,
yep this is what I do. cell phones are so cheap and 20 bucks every three months (or when you need minutes) is a small price to pay.
 
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Wiseman2 wrote :
This is an excellent example of what can happen,in that, not necessarily a stalker , but a weirdo albeit charming and normal looking . People don't want to walk around on guard and almost paranoid, yet these things can and do happen . There is a way to prevent this, Technology
This happened to me 7 years ago. I had the presence of mind to only give him my first name, and at that time my cell phone did not display my name on Caller ID, nor could you look me up by that phone number on a reverse directory.

You can call your cell phone company (or probably ask online for most carriers) and have whatever is displayed on Caller ID for your phone changed to something that is not your full name if you so desire. I knew a gal named Anna whose caller ID showed up as Anna Banana. I think that would be a lot simpler and less expensive solution than to get yet another cell phone. I already pay for 3 phones, for me and my 2 kids, plus sometimes have to carry a separate one for work. I really don't want to have a purse FULL of phones!
 
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didn't your mother tell you that vampires can't come in unless invited. Very important saftey tip!
 
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Fleuellen wrote :
didn't your mother tell you that vampires can't come in unless invited. Very important saftey tip!
Are you reading Twilight?
 
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Fleuellen is offline Fleuellen Post #25  August 14,2009, 2:39pm
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No, but recently read Let the right one in.
 
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