SingleIntheCity is offline SingleIntheCity Post #1  August 11,2009, 5:25pm
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I just met someone over the weekend (Saturday) for the first time after about a week of online communication. I thought it went well - at the end of the meeting, he said it was great meeting up and we should do this again (referencing a restuarant that I suggested in prior communications). I eagerly agreed that we should defnitely meet up again and to let me know what works... but, it's Tuesday, and I haven't gotten any message from him.... should I send a quick note saying 'hi'? or just leave it because he's probably lost interest...??
 
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If you already set a specific time / date / place to meet, no worries at all. That is the way I do it.

If not, was there any indication that one party had the unpredictibility of schedule? (If so, that person should call when they have resolved the issue.)

He will probably call when it gets nearer the day. There is no reason for you not to call, but I'd say just sit tight.
 
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D_Lion wrote :
If you already set a specific time / date / place to meet, no worries at all. That is the way I do it.

If not, was there any indication that one party had the unpredictibility of schedule? (If so, that person should call when they have resolved the issue.)

He will probably call when it gets nearer the day. There is no reason for you not to call, but I'd say just sit tight.
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What's wrong with me? I find myself agreeing with you for the second time in one day. That's unprecedented!
 
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You're recovering?
 
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Thanks. There was no time set, and no unpredictability implied.. basically it was left open.. perhaps my bad, I should've tried to schedule something there and then, but left it open as to who would contact who (though I did say he can let me know what works...)
 
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You're recovering?
Any medicine on offer to speed up the process?
 
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Thanks. There was no time set, and no unpredictability implied.. basically it was left open.. perhaps my bad, I should've tried to schedule something there and then, but left it open as to who would contact who (though I did say he can let me know what works...)
I don't see how it was your bad. Either of you could have said something. But I don't see why it should be too late now, do you?
 
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You could call him and ask if he would rather call or be called?
 
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D_Lion wrote :
You could call him and ask if he would rather call or be called?
When did you develop a passion for telephones?
 
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This advice was tailored specifically for the OP.
 
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