What to say when you get rejected?


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IcecreamMoon is offline IcecreamMoon Post #51  August 12,2009, 2:51am
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What to say when you get rejected in a night club:

"I didn't ask if you want to dance. I said you look fat in those pants."
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What to say after you've been rejected. This is an easy one! I've been on a couple dates with an eharm match and I'm considering "poofing" on her since I can't come up with something to tell her.
 
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rix wrote :
What to say when you get rejected in a night club:

"I didn't ask if you want to dance. I said you look fat in those pants."
now this is comedy. i love it
 
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op the problem when some men ask out is sometimes they take a nice decline as a "maybe"

if i say " aww i'm really flattered, but nooo" *smile* and they think because you are being nice to him that you really are interested. I wouldnt take a more curt no personally at all.
 
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rocchio wrote :
What to say after you've been rejected. This is an easy one! I've been on a couple dates with an eharm match and I'm considering "poofing" on her since I can't come up with something to tell her.
Oh, how I looove that word! It makes me laugh every time I see it!
 
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IcecreamMoon wrote :
Next what?
next date, babe, shagg, whatever ... move on ... big deal. I guess it is sometimes relief as it saves you having to say something (but you can't say that, as it is rude). How about " No biggee. All the best on your quest."
 
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[quote=D_Lion;707797]You are doing a woman a favor to invite her on a date. It is the favor to ask her, to treat her, and to give her the chance of getting to know you.
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Doing a woman a favor? Really? Wow!
Calling it a favor may be taking it a bit far, but there has to be some balance to the raging sense of entitlement that many women exhibit.
 
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Calling it a favor may be taking it a bit far, but there has to be some balance to the raging sense of entitlement that many women exhibit.
Broken record?
 
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Broken record?
Have I said that before?

I must have old FCisms lodged in my brain.
 
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